r/reactivedogs • • 21h ago

Aggressive Dogs Reactivity Improvement After Meds

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Hi, I have a 3 year old pitbull terrier mix who’s extremely dog aggressive, she loves people but dogs are such an hit or miss. After 2 years of managing her behavior, I finally decided to start her on medication & training. She’s prescribed trazodone & gabapentin for situational events & then fluxotenine for daily . So far it’s only been like a week & I’m just losing hope. My whole thing is I’m aware that training is linear but has anyone in the chat successfully seen their dog behavior changed with the med/training combo? I don’t want to surrender her because we’ve been through a lot together & nobody will ever love her as much as I do but I’m tired. I’m 5’1 112 pounds & wrestling with an 70 pound reactive dog every time she sees animals is not cute. it’s embarrassing & I’m literally over it.


r/reactivedogs • • 14h ago

Advice Needed I honestly can't cope with my dog anymore

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Hey everyone, I have a 1-year-and-3-month-old dog, and I'm honestly at my wit's end.

Six months ago, I quit my job so I could focus on working through his behavioral issues. Unfortunately, I've now run out of money for trainers and rent, so I had to go back to work. At my previous job, he actually did pretty well in the office.

I had everything prepared: his crate, which he's used to, treats, and toys. But the moment we walked into the office, he started screaming and barking at everyone there. Nobody was even looking at him. They were all just sitting at their computers, minding their own business.

I genuinely don't know what to do with this dog anymore.

We've been working on his aggression towards people for six months now. It's gotten to the point where nobody can even stop me on the street to ask me what time it is without him causing a scene.

I ended up giving up, leaving the office at 9:22 AM, and going home.

I brought him with me because the office is dog-friendly, and I thought it would be good for him to come along and have walks during my lunch break. But if he's going to behave like a complete maniac, I simply can't take him anywhere.

The weird thing is that he actually does pretty well in cafés, so I genuinely don't understand why the office was such a disaster.

I've already spent so much money on different classes, trainers, equipment, and even some calming supplements. I honestly don't know who else to turn to or what else to try.

He's not neglected. He has everything he needs, I feed him properly, take care of him, and try my best to work with him. I just feel like I've tried everything, and we're getting nowhere.

Has anyone dealt with anything similar? What actually helped you? I'd really appreciate any advice because I'm honestly reaching my breaking point.


r/reactivedogs • • 21h ago

Advice Needed Doberman owners: Board-and-train or one-to-one training with the owner?

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I’d love to hear from people with firsthand experience training Dobermans, particularly those with reactive, anxious or highly alert dogs.

I have a just-over-one-year-old male Doberman with sound sensitivity, reactivity around children and unfamiliar people, and discomfort with close proximity, particularly in confined or territorial spaces.

He recently snapped at someone’s trousers, thankfully without causing any injury, and we want to address his behaviour properly before it escalates.

Before people get frustrated with ‘another irresponsible owner taking on a breed they are not prepared for’ we initially took him in as a foster as he was literally on the brink of death. He was starved and malnourished, had severe pneumonia and had disfigured legs from being in a small cage since birth. We recovered him and were hoping to find him a suitable home. Unfortunately, given the country we live in, finding someone willing to adopt a large dog, particularly a Doberman, proved incredibly difficult. We inevitably fell in love with him and decided to keep him permanently. Owning a Doberman was never something we had planned for, either practically or financially, but we’ve accepted that we’re his family now and have a responsibility to give him the best life possible. We want to make sure we’re doing everything we can to help him become a confident, well-adjusted dog.

I’ve been told by a trainer that the best, or only real, way to train him is to send him to a kennel for a month, followed by a handover session. However, others have warned me that board-and-train can be ineffective for behavioural issues if the owner isn’t involved throughout the process.

For those of you who’ve owned and trained Dobermans, what has your experience been?
Have you used board-and-train, and did the results last once your dog came home?
Have you had success with one-to-one training where you attend the sessions and learn alongside your dog?
If your Doberman struggled with reactivity, anxiety or alerting, which approach worked best, and why?
Thank you for your advice in advance 🙏🏼


r/reactivedogs • • 21h ago

Significant challenges It happened again

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We’ve had our dog for just over 4 years now. We got her from a shelter where they did not explain to us her issues with other animals. We lived in an apartment and while living there she got into it with a neighbors dog. Luckily, their dog was not seriously harmed. Due to this situation we spent months trying positive reinforcement training that never worked for our girl.

After this, we decided to buy a home with a fenced in yard so she’d have somewhere to safely run without feeling anxiety. On day two of owning our home she broke into our neighbors yard and attacked their lab. Again, we were blessed that no serious injuries occurred and our neighbor met us with so much kindness regarding the situation. We paid for his dogs vet bills, staked our fence down, decided to never let her be outside unsupervised, and bought a shock collar in case the worst somehow happened again.

Yesterday it did happen again. This time to our other neighbors dog, while there were three children present. There were 4 adults present as well. She slipped under the fence and got ahold of their dog and we once again had to pry our dog off of another dog. They are being very understanding but at this point my husband and I think it’s best to rehome her. We have done everything to try to stop this aside from formal training because frankly, we can’t afford that.

We are worried at this point that one of the children may be hurt in the future. Not on purpose but on accident, if they are close by. We are so sad and are strongly considering rehoming her somewhere there are zero other animals or children, but wanted advice on if this is the best option.


r/reactivedogs • • 8h ago

Significant challenges Rehome/Surrender Dog or face eviction

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Here is my post from yesterday that explains what happened. https://www.reddit.com/r/reactivedogs/s/d4NK6DCIGm

My apartment complex reached out to me about an hour ago, told me that the other dog did have to go the vet, and I have to remove my dog from the property within 10 days or I will be in violation of my lease.

I have literally been sobbing ever since the call. It’s all my fault.

If anyone has ever experienced, please, any advice is welcome.


r/reactivedogs • • 8h ago

Advice Needed Has anyone had actual success with slip leash walking?

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Please be kind with your advice. We are working hard on getting our reactivity boy to the dog we know he is. We stopped walking him anywhere but around the yard for the longest time. Now he has been to a training boarding and they worked with him on a slip leash. He seems to have done incredibly well with the trainer. He would go on long public walks with a pack of dogs, and from the reports it seems he did just fine. When the trainer does home visits, he does well there too.
When I walk him it is a whole different game. I feel like I am constantly pulling at him, he is freaking out on everything we see. He is choking when I “correct” him, which I know means the leash is improperly fitted but every time the trainer shows me I can’t tell what I’m doing wrong. I know the transition back to home is hard but I am about ready to give up. We are also training our puppy with a slip leash now and it’s the same story there- I am constantly pulling and they cough and I am so afraid of hurting them. The training also advised to choose times on the walk to allow the dog to sniff which I don’t like. I’ve always believed the walk belongs to the dog and I am just the guide to properly interact with the environment. With the slip leash though, this just turns into tug of war. I really don’t want to sully the training they have gotten, but it’s just miserable for me.

TLDR, does anyone have positive advice for slip leash training to translate and actually help lessen reaction and have a peaceful walk?


r/reactivedogs • • 10h ago

Advice Needed Beau’s a good boy, except…

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Beau is an 80-pound Great Dane mix we rescued 6 years ago when he was 10 months old. Ninety percent of the time he’s a sweet boy, and he has absolutely no problem dealing with other dogs (he loves them) or people. But he can be nervous about men he doesn’t know, and he has one behavioral glitch we can’t figure out. He will walk he apply up to most people to get patted enjoys the attention. But when the patting stops he will lunge and growl at the person who was patting him. He doesn’t seem to want to make contact with the person when he does this, though it’s happened—almost by accident—once or twice. It happens more frequently with men than with women—sometimes even with men he really likes when he’s indoors with them.

I can sometimes lure him away after the patting session with a treat—it shifts his focus away from the interaction. If I’m consistent about that, will that train him out of this? Or do I need a more systematic approach?


r/reactivedogs • • 13h ago

Vent Inconsiderate neighbor has given my dog a new trigger :(

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There is a woman that lives in my neighborhood who drives around and lets her dog hang halfway out the window and bark the ENTIRE. TIME. You can hear them coming as soon as they turn onto the street. To make matters worse, she will actively slow down as she passes me and my dog, even as my dog is barking, lunging, attempting to pull me into the street. I don’t know if she thinks it’s a fun activity for her dog or what, but it has made walks so much more stressful for us. My dog, who never used to pay attention to cars, is now hyper vigilant to any and all passing vehicles, sometimes barking and lunging when a car looks similar to the one that the barking dog is usually in.
I’m frustrated and I’m sad for my dog that another stressor has been added to his long list. I’m trying to do positive conditioning when we can (see a car, mark it, reward when he checks in with me), but I don’t think it will ever be a reasonable expectation for him to not be stressed by a barking dog.
This is mostly just a vent, but if anyone has any advice I’m all ears! TIA!


r/reactivedogs • • 23h ago

Rehoming Dog struggling with city life

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r/reactivedogs • • 14h ago

Advice Needed LAT vs. leave it

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i have a 2.5 year old mixed breed - best guess border collie, aussie mix (definitely herding breed).
we have done a ton of training with her but she’s in general very anxious and we just can’t seem to get any traction with leash reactivity. we’ve done SO much LAT work and it feels like we are stuck? sometimes it seems like telling her to leave it helps more? but i know that’s kinda counter-productive to LAT sooooo any advice is welcome.
we are going to look into anxiety medication as she is also in general showing signs of high anxiety just from being outdoors (no dogs or people around etc.).
also if you have a working breed and have had success with like “job work” while on a walk plz share! :)


r/reactivedogs • • 14h ago

Separation Anxiety Help

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I have a 5 year old husky who is on gabapentin and trazodone 2x daily when needed, but it seems that it wears off quickly, so he starts hawling down the house.

Has anyone else had this?
im at work 9 hours per day, this happened about a year ago when my other dog died. He’s just been so unsettled since.

I don’t know what else I can do, I don’t want to rehome him


r/reactivedogs • • 23h ago

Significant challenges I'm tired of my dog

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I'm just so tired...i have a gsd mix, i got her when she was 3 months old at a local shelter and she had no mother nor siblings back then. She was alone and the staff told me a guy adopted her from sketchy online sites and then abandoned her at the shelter after few days. She Is now 4 years old and I'd lie if i tell you that she hasnt improved.

She was very anxious, constantly pulling on the lead, barking at everything that moved. Now she Is really good on the lead, can be taken everywhere without an issue...exept that she barks at every dog she sees.

If She has plenty of space betwheen her and the dog she doesnt bark but more often than not She does.

My boyfriend Is getting tired of her as well and im so sad to not being able to enjoy my dog and the time i spend with my dog because i gotta look for other dogs and Plan escape routes every time i am soooo tired.

(Sorry for my bad english)


r/reactivedogs • • 14h ago

Advice Needed I don’t know how to help my reactive dog

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for context i have a two year old male german shepherd who’s severely reactive, even from a distance all he can focus on is the other dog, and if we’re close he’s lunging and growling a and trying to get to the other dog. i simply don’t know how to help him, ive taught him different focusing commands but all of that goes out the window as soon as he sees another dog, i want to give him an exciting life but instead we’re stuck doing neighborhood walks and playing in the yard because he’s so reactive. he’s also still intact which i dont know if that plays a role and if he’ll get better once he’s neutered but i don’t know how to fix this. i was walking him today and i thought i gave us enough space from this other dog but he lunged suddenly and dragged me across the payment,i just want to help make him better


r/reactivedogs • • 13h ago

Significant challenges Very anxious dog - does it get better? Need some success stories maybe?

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Hello!! I have a female dog that is turning 2 in November and our challenge is very strong anxiety towards environment. We adopted her with my partner when she was 12 weeks old so one could say it's ideal - but she was saved with her sisters and mother from bad conditions with small contact with human and then was totally quarantined for two weeks until we got her. Back then I was sure she's a puppy, she will learn everything no issue etc. We live in mid-large city, not in the very center but she came from a village. Anyway we started to socialise her, first from the bag, then out of it but she was always a bit shy. I think she was always anxious but I didn't understand it and then a noise startled her so much on a walk, she started running in panic and I ran with her instead of stopping her and comforting. From now on it went downhill, she was maybe 14 weeks when it happened; was scared of people, noises, cars, outside world generally. We went to a trainer and she suggested we socialised her too intensively which might be true but well, it was too late. She told us to use three areas and wanted us to use this method of coming back to the "safe" area everytime our puppy was scared. Now I know what method did she mean but she just didn't take into consideration the fact, that there's NO area outside where our dog felt safe. So the trainer shortcuted it all to "run with her where she wants to gain trust" and I feel like it was our biggest mistake as we taught her to run everytime she's scared of anything.

It was getting worse and worse to the point we changed to another behaviorist that recommended us meds because our dog would stop everywhere, startled, shaking, she would shake before going out of our apartament, ran away from collar or harness, either completely stop on walks or rush like there's no tomorrow in panic, she was 9 months old when we started the meds. She never wanted food when stressed, didn't want to eat outside and we have to use her wet food outside cause she doesn't take aby treats. The training though was "only" counter conditioning but it was so hard even on meds because it was still so hard even with the most delicious food. And it's not like walks were extremely hard, we carried her outside and at first even carried her to the forest near and maybe 2-3 people would walk past us during the whole hour but it was still so stressing for her. We continued but this training didn't do much.

At home she was startled of falling objects, noises of washing mashine or taking the dishes outside but it actually got better in this part! She started on fluoxetine and it made her rest and sleep so much more which we've seen as something good, we really care about her rest. She's such a nice dog at home right now, can rest but can also train with me, do nosework or exercises/fitness since she has first stages of luxating patellas. But once we are outside, even at peaceful place, this all just dissapears and is replaced with fears.

Back to my story, we went to veterinarian-behaviorist (we still do go to the same one) and trazodone has been added to the mix in February. Fluoxetine helped her after 6 weeks first as well - she wasn't like TOTALLY out of her mind like before, would do "sit" on the walk at some occasions, some of touching our hands, stopped rushing that much, we still continued counter conditioning, gave her food for every better behavior. And then, when she stopped progressing, trazodone helped as well, it seemed. She was exploring and sniffing more in the forest (before she would just go for the sake of walking). We started to train with another trainer to get more exercises on top of the counter conditioning and it worked, tried to keep her near us im difficult environment, to gain her trust in us (that it is safe with us) etc. She even started taking treats other than her food sometimes, could do few tricks in the woods... And it turned out she got her first heat at 1,5 years. During the heat she was braver, if you'd ask me if I want to keep it like this I'd say yes cause she was the best she every was, even if still scared a lot. Had contact with us. Sometimes she would even keep being close and nice to get food outside which before never happened. It was tiny bit annoying atm even cause I wanted her to explore but oh boy how I miss this.

After the heat it slowly became worse and worse. We tried to up the doses of both fluoxetine and trazodone (separately) but one made her even more anxious and the other caused that she was completely detached from us. Stopped taking the food outside again. Would startle at more things again, panic more and stop more, shake more. A month later she actually got stomach inflammation and we were treating that, so she acted very panicky and scared but we didn't want to change a lot at such hard time for her. At this point she was 1 year, 7 months. We slowly cured it, went on diet, did tests and ultrasound again and she got better but her anxiety stayed. We couldn't train again at all and went to our vet again to ask if we could change the meds as it got great results only around her heat so I wasn't even sure if it's meds at all.

And we're here today at very small dose of trazodone and week on our first destined dose of clomipramine (instead of fluoxetine) and I know I have to wait for it to kick in, I read this reddit like a maniac, not only this but like the whole internet. To get hope from anywhere. She's lovely and so smart at home! She actually loves her dog friends, she has some longterm pals, we go with them at least once a week and when she's in the fields with them it's the only time outside that her tail is up. She loves dogs btw, she would repeat so many things after them, we actually want another one one day but I'm too responsible to do it in the middle of this mess with her. Because other than on walks with friends, she's still shaking before going out, we now have to carry her out of the closed area our apartament is because she's frozen. She can go to our forest because with been there hundreds of times, everyday and she still has moments od huge panic even inside it, not even talking outside. She would freeze when someone is walking behind us, she would freeze when the car is turned on and just stays on her way, unmoving. She never actually wants to go outside, she's taking food only in specific areas and moments when she feels safe in the forest. I'm just so sad and it's not like I want her to completely fit my fantasy of dog but I poured so much energy, worry, money in her, I do many things with her at home and try try try but I feel so miserable seeing her progress... (Minimal) She's approaching second heat I think and I'm scared of it getting worse or better and then worse anyway. I'm waiting very patiently for the meds to kick in but I don't know if I actually believe I'll help. I want to, I don't want to give up, I know she was able to be better but I don't know how to come back to it. Training is almost impossible now, we're using the same routs she knows, she has routine and it's at least helping to do the same walk over and over and over. She's back to be very detached from us on walks too.

Do you think there's a chance something will click in her with either meds or maturing? I don't want to give up with the search for right meds but its taking so much time and energy, I'm just a bit discouraged. She will be 2 y o at the end of November. And I'm panicking I'll never get her out of this but I want it do much. :( I got interest in training, doing many things with my dog, I have time for it... But her brain declines and it makes me so sad.

If you have some good word for me, I'd appreciate it ❤️


r/reactivedogs • • 12h ago

Aggressive Dogs Just adopted a 7-year-old Frenchie with some serious resource/space guarding issues. Looking for advice on how to proceed

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My girlfriend and I adopted a 7-year-old male French Bulldog from a shelter yesterday, and I’m looking for some advice on how to proceed with some of his behavioral issues.
First off, I’m fully aware of the 3-3-3 rule and understand that he hasn’t even been with us for 24 hours yet. I know he needs time to decompress and adjust, and we’re not expecting him to be a perfect dog overnight. I’m mainly trying to figure out the best way to manage his behavior safely without making things worse.
The shelter was upfront with us about his behavioral issues. They mentioned that he was extremely defensive in his kennel and would growl, lunge, and snap at staff when they tried to get him out. They eventually found that leaving the kennel door open and letting him come out on his own worked better.
When we met him, he was initially cautious but quickly warmed up and became very friendly and affectionate. We decided to adopt him, and honestly, the entire trip home went great. He was fine being handled, friendly with everyone at Petco when we stopped for supplies, and spent the couple-hour drive home trying to get attention and pets from us.
We also have a 10-year-old female bully mix. They briefly met in our yard, sniffed each other, and he attempted to mount her. She gave him a quick correction, and afterward she mostly ignored him. We’ve been keeping them separated while he adjusts.
Once home, we let him explore and fed him. Unfortunately, we made the mistake of leaving our older dog’s food bowl out since she’s always been a free feeder. He found it and immediately began aggressively resource guarding it, growling, snapping, and attempting to bite when approached. I was able to remove the bowl, and we realized we’d need to change our feeding routine.
We had set up our guest bedroom with a bed and water to give him his own quiet space. He initially explored it without issues, but after a few minutes became extremely defensive of the room. He would growl, show his teeth, lunge, and snap when I approached, even from outside the doorway. We left him alone for the night to decompress.
This morning was interesting. When I opened his door to feed him, he was somewhat defensive but much calmer. I was able to put his food down and leave the door open. He finished eating and came out on his own, completely friendly again.
I took him for a walk, played with him, and he was affectionate and social the entire time. At one point, I had closed the guest bedroom door while he was outside, and I was able to go in and out of the room to set up a camera without any issues. He even followed me in to see what I was doing and showed absolutely no defensive behavior.
Later, after having him in the guest bedroom for about 30–40 minutes while our older dog ate, I let him back out and left the door open.
He was hanging out near the front door, probably 20 feet away, when I started walking toward the hallway to close the guest bedroom door. He immediately sprinted ahead of me and positioned himself between me and the bedroom. He wasn’t initially growling or snapping, just standing in front of me and watching what I was going to do. If I moved, he’d reposition himself to stay in front of me. When I continued toward the room, he became defensive again, growling, showing his teeth, and lunging.
What’s confusing is that outside these specific situations, he’s been an incredibly sweet dog. He actively seeks affection, enjoys walks, plays with toys, and seems genuinely happy to interact with us. But when it comes to food or what seems to be his personal space, his behavior changes dramatically.
He’s also currently intact and has a neutering appointment scheduled for October 21, although I understand neutering isn’t necessarily going to fix resource guarding or fear-based behavior.
My biggest concern right now is figuring out how to safely manage him while he adjusts.
I was fortunate enough to be off work today, but tomorrow we’re both back to our normal schedules. I work 6 AM–2 PM, and my girlfriend works 8 AM–4 PM. We have a camera set up in his room, but I’m unsure whether continuing to use the guest bedroom as his designated space is the right approach, considering how defensive he becomes around it. We also have a good sized fully fenced yard. I don’t want to repeatedly put him in situations where he feels threatened or feels the need to defend himself, but we also need a safe way to keep him separated from our older dog while we’re at work.

Any advice or personal experiences would be appreciated!


r/reactivedogs • • 14h ago

Advice Needed I thought I had found a solution, but conditioning isn't working as expected

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After one year of pure hell, I finally found a "solution" for my dog (White one) basically, it's conditioning.

Conditioning was the first thing I thought about when it became a real problem, but because I couldn't predict what would make him bark, I was simply unable to do it at all. I even tried to provoke the barking and failed every time, so we couldn't work on it.

Now that I know him better, I can spot when he hears something that is going to make him bark, and we have started working on it. Basically, when he hears a sound, I give him a treat before he barks, so now he knows that if he hears something that triggers him, the solution is to look at me. From there, I started to add a command to it, both verbal and physical. The ultimate goal was to have a command that helps him release the pressure he feels about a noise, and I hoped he would learn to calm himself down in the years to come

BUT , the problem is that it doesn't work if we can't see each other. The moment we lose sight of each other, the barking comes back worse than ever. He doesn't have to be very far from me , him just being behind my back is all it takes. I guess I can't see him giving signs, so he chooses to bark instead.

All of this hasn't even made our lives better despite finding another way to navigate his reactivity, we are still at the same point. It has been 3 months since we started working like this every day, which drives me crazy because ultimately I can't just watch him every second of the day.

Can y'all help us ?, because I have no idea what should come next

Details about his life : We go out every day to the forest, to swim, or for bikejoring ,sometimes all three at once. He sees a lot of things, and I regularly go on vacation with them to the beach, the mountains, snow. We do training, work on commands, and play with toys or other dogs.

At home, he has enrichment toys and wooden chew sticks. He doesn't have separation anxiety or destructive behavior, basically, he is just perfect except for the barking. I don't really know if I need to change some things in our routine that could help with the barking.

My first dog doesn't make a sound, so he isn't triggered by her


r/reactivedogs • • 13h ago

Rehoming Thinking of rehoming my dog.

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Last November I got a 2nd dog. He's a full breed Yorkie and he is very sweet and gets along with my other 8 year old dog. The issue is he is very reactive and it's causing problems between me and my neighbors. Every time I take him out potty, he barks bloody murder. Every time. God forbid another dog is walking by all hell breaks loose, which is often where we live. I've tried treats, exposure therapy, etc. and nothing works. I walk him everyday. My brother wouldn't forgive me or let me live it down if I gave him up. Not to mention how much I would miss him and how awful I'd feel. But when I think about having just one dog again it's like a weight lifted off my shoulders. I don't know what to do.


r/reactivedogs • • 13h ago

Significant challenges How do you break up a serious dog fight when alone?

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Hi everyone, I'm new here and need some advice. My fiancé and I have a 2 year old F Shiloh Shepherd (German Shepherd/Alaskan Malamute mix) and a 2 year old F Golden Retriever. We've had the shepherd for almost 2 years, but adopted the golden from a family member earlier this year. When we adopted her, they were both un-spayed. They had gotten in 2-3 territorial fights within the first month we had both. There were times where the shepherd snapped first, and times where the golden snapped first (believe me, she has a fiesty side). My fiancé was always there and broke it up himself, the fights never lasted longer than a few seconds. In May 2026, we spayed both of them and there hasn't been a fight or even a close call since. We thought taking the hormones out of them worked and they had eventually established dominance in the house. They play, cuddle, and get along for the most part.

A few nights ago, I was alone in the backyard taking the dogs out (my fiancé works the night shift). The dogs were busy chewing on a large piece of firewood in the yard and I was trying to get their minds off the stick so they'd go potty. I stood on top of the stick and the dogs kept circling it to try to get on either side of it. Then they both just snapped, I watched the whole thing happen right next to me. It's like it was just dog language, they both decided "it's on, bitch." They fought for so long and so hard and I couldn't break it up. I sprayed the hose at them, I threw things at them, tried to stick the large log in between them, nothing was working. I screamed for help for over 10 minutes while running like a maniac trying to find my phone (I eventually found it lying in the yard after I flung it at some point). I called 911 because I thought one was eventually going to kill the other. The fight lasted for probably 10 straight minutes, it was agony. Eventually the golden laid on her side below the shepherd, I was screaming thinking she was dead. The cops came and the dogs flew up and acted like everything was ok, just barking at the cops. The shepherd had obviously won the fight, the golden was bloody and limping. Everyone is ok now, both got checked out at the vet and are on antibiotics. The golden bounced back pretty fast.

It's been 3 days and they've been separated the whole weekend, but my fiancé starts the night shift again this week and I'm terrified to be alone with them again. My friend had an air horn she had gotten for self defense and gave it to me to use in case of another need to break up a fight. I am beyond traumatized and so anxious for what to do next. Does anyone have any advice on how to break up a fight if another happens in the future? I do not want to have to rehome one of these dogs. TIA.


r/reactivedogs • • 8h ago

Behavioral Euthanasia My heart is broken

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My millie is scheduled for BE tomorrow at 4:30. I am heartbroken. I keep thinking about what I would've done differently after bringing her home 2 years ago. I found her on the side of the road at 3 months old, she was starved, scared and confused.

The answer is, I would do it all over again. I would love her anyways. I have always loved her just the way she is, but I can't keep living like this. She was MY best friend. Everyone hated her, was afraid of her. But not me, I moved halfway across the country at 19 years old for her. To help her get away from all the things that scared her, just for her to be scared of all the new things.

I'll always remember the way she looks at me when I calm her down from an anxiety freak out. I'll always remember the way she frolicked like a deer whenever she ran. I'll remember her waking me up with morning kisses. And especially the way she would dance with me when I'm cooking dinner. She is my baby. And now all I can do is treat her like I do everyday. With so much love, until tomorrow at 4:30pm. Which will undoubtedly be the hardest day of my life.

I've almost backed out so many times, but I can't put my unborn baby through this. I can't refrain my son from running around the house in fear that he will trigger her to bite him. But still, I would do it all over again. I'm going to miss her so much, but I know her mind is her only enemy. And I so desperately wish all of my efforts over the years would pay off. But my heart is broken and I can't keep pouring time, money, hope and love into a dog who's not benefiting from any of it.

Anyways. She'll always be my girl, even in the afterlife, whatever that may be.


r/reactivedogs • • 11h ago

Meds & Supplements Thinking about starting my dog on Prozac

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For 8 years, I have done the consistent training, other trainers, expensive behavioral dog trainer.

Sandwiches is a rescue Wheaten Terrier and essentially in the beginning I just wrote it off as him just being a pup and learning a new environment as he picked up pretty easily on learning basics to more advanced training/tricks.

Eventually, he was prescribed Trazadone for him, so that we could train outside with his triggers, long car rides etc.

I didnt think he needed a consistent medication though. I didn't mind the Cujo barking (I was a single woman) but now as he ages, the anxiety and stress he has (whining at night because he heard a car) that I just feel helpless even though I show him that there is nothing there.

He is getting his annual teeth cleaning done this week and I wanted to ask the vet about Prozac.

Has anyone had their dog on it? Can you share your experiences?

I don't want his funny, loving personality that I see everyday to go away.


r/reactivedogs • • 15h ago

Discussion Does your dog have a reactivity final boss?

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After 5 months of consistent counter conditioning for his on leash dog reactivity, my dog can now pass most dogs when out and about and remain pretty chill. I still have to get him to disengage if I notice things might escalate, but he disengaged quickly when I do a clicking sound and offer him a treat. We can go often on long walks with zero reactions now, running into several dogs. Even in the occasional reaction, he is easy to disengage and will chill immediately after you redirect his attention.

However! Any dog that resembles a husky or chow chow will regress him to his very worst reactivity, he will react even if the dog is far away and will take a while to settle (continues barking even if the dog is out of sight). I am hoping this is not something that will be permanent, but rather choosing to see it as the final boss level: the monster you defeat at the very last level of the game.

Just curious, does your dog have a reactivity final boss?


r/reactivedogs • • 6h ago

Advice Needed Dog reactivity towards apartment door

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We just adopted an 11 month old lab mix rescue 2 weeks ago. For almost her whole life before coming to us she was in a foster with other dogs and got along with all people and dogs per her foster mom. Since bringing her home she has shown some reactivity. We live in a busy apartment complex where she crosses paths with a lot of people and dogs daily even when we try to go out on off times. She occasionally barks and growls at dogs or people outside but that has already gotten so much better and that is less of a concern for me now. Overall she is a very anxious dog and does well after slow introductions. The big problem we are having is her barking and growling at the door. It is only at certain noises. One noise in particular is a dog collar she hears when a certain dog walks past our door. We have a sound machine and she is still able to hear it. We also cannot remove the door from her eye sight because where we spend our time is in the living room which faces the door. We have been attempting to give her treats before she starts barking to work as counter conditioning but she typically hears the noise and barks before we even notice the noise and I do not want to reward the behavior by giving her treats after she barks. Once she starts barking she also does not listen because she is so locked in on the noise. We have tried bringing her to another room but that seems to increase her frustration. I understand she is still adjusting to our apartment and all about the 3/3/3 rule but I do not want her practicing this behavior and it getting worse. Any advice would help!!


r/reactivedogs • • 2h ago

Meds & Supplements Pre-vet visit medications

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1.5 yr old male Australian Shepherd, around 17kg.
Had bad experience with a vet early in life (before I got him) and has always been very reactive at the vet (growling, lunging, barking).

We were told to take 350mg Gabapentin and 100mg trazodone night before the vet visit and also on the morning of the visit.

However the meds seemed to make him even more active and alert (he was pacing the house from 9PM-11PM, unable to fall asleep.

Same reaction in the morning. I always thought this would make him sleepy/dopey, but no he seems to be even more alert.

Any one else had the same issue?


r/reactivedogs • • 5h ago

Meds & Supplements Do behavioral supplements work?

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I have a 6 year old medium sized mutt and he has a long history of fear based reactivity with 2 level 3 bite cases. It was more manageable last time but for this past 6 months, it's been hell. Even little things are setting him off and he's constantly stressed out and tense even at home.

Brought him to the vets last week and they recommended to feed him gabapentin 2 hours before his appointment so we did that but he freaked out so badly during the vet visit, wouldn't let me put his muzzle on him (he kept taking it off even in the car) and wouldn't calm down at all.

He was so scared, he even pooped himself. They had to physically hold him down so that he wouldn't attack anyone.

We talked to the vets about his behaviour and the vets said they can't prescribe any medications for him but to try pheromone diffusers and they also gave us a number to a behaviorist. We contacted the behaviorist the same day and had an appointment set up with her the next week but she never showed up and never texted us back. I live in a rural place so certified behaviorists are very hard to come by. I was actually a little disappointed that she ghosted us. We also discussed behavioral euthanasia but the vet said it's not ethical yet because physically he's very healthy.

I feel like I'm failing my dog, tried to desperately get him help but help is never provided. My next step is to try behavioral supplements. Does anyone have positive experiences using behavioral supplements? Or the pheromone diffusers?


r/reactivedogs • • 5h ago

Rehoming When to rehome a dog.

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