r/tryingforanother • • 3d ago

Daily Chat Thread Daily Chat - October 11, 2026

Tell us about everything! Only thing that isn't allowed is BFP and pregnancy talk - those have their own threads.

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u/thebehbehacct 40 | TTC#3 Nov 2025| 3 Chem | 15 🌸 13 🦋 1d ago

5 dpo and in cycle 11. Last cycle was rough.

I’ve lost hope, but I’m not really down about it. I think my body might be done. The perimenopause symptoms have been insane. I’m just going until January 2027 and then re-evaluating.

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u/Dinah_Saurus_Rex 35 | TTC#2 since Jan ‘26 | 🩵11/23 2d ago

DPO 12 and my period arrived early. Ugh. So now not only does this mean this cycle is a bust but so will my next one since my husband will be out of town for work during my fertile window. If my period came just 2 days later like it usually does- that wouldn’t be an issue. So rude.

Also now I’m debating if it’s even worth it to go to the fertility clinic for Clomid if my app predicts that my ovulation day will be the day he arrives back from an overseas trip and he will be jet lagged and exhausted since he can’t sleep on flights.

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u/musictheron 32 | TTC#2 since Aug 26 | 💚 Sept 24 | 1 MC 2d ago

we're back to trying after our loss a few weeks ago. I feel like I "should" feel lucky that we conceived on our first month trying, which did not happen with our first kid, but it was too good to be true. I just wish we hadn't seen the positive test and I could've skipped all of the last few weeks. Here's hoping our next positive will also be soon, but sticky this time 😞

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u/BVBWYA 2d ago

CD 13. Second cycle on letrozole. 5mg. Just had my ovulation test this morning confirm-its time. We managed to have intercourse very early this morning(like 1am) had the ovulation test at 10:30-but partner’s just left for work. Not to mention it was the first time in days, which I think doesn’t give us good results, if I understand correctly. Its got me super anxious. Am I already out this cycle? Or do we still have a chance if we can squeeze another time in tomorrow morning? My anxiety is so high right now! 😅

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u/athousandships_ 36 | TTC#3 July 26 2d ago

I'm not an expert in LH tests but if I understand correctly, a positive means that ovulation is 12-36 hours away. So from the time you had sex it was maybe 22-46 hours away which would be perfect timing, 1-2 days before ovulation is statistically better than the day of ovulation. I personally would try to add another round but in theory once is all it takes...

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u/Express_Athlete_8573 2d ago

Pissed! My period just came and I had such good feeling about this cycle. To make matters worse, my period is 2 days early which means we will miss my entire fertile window because of a business trip 😣😣

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u/hmch17 34 | TTC #3 since Aug ‘26 | 5/20🩷 5/22🩷 2d ago

I’m siiiiick and it’s messing up my BBT. It’s CD 11 and I’m hoping I get better soon because I don’t feel like being touched rn 🙁

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u/athousandships_ 36 | TTC#3 July 26 2d ago

CD11 and ovulation expected in a week, just took a nap, dreamed that I had egg white CM 😂 other people have great dreams about being pregnant, I dream about having the correct CM

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u/Kindly_Switch_4964 31 | TTC#2 since Dec ‘25 | 🩷 Oct ‘24 2d ago

🤣🤣🤣

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u/jpaige2 2d ago

7-9 DPO trying not to symptom check, but overall feeling pretty normal hoping this is a good sign the last two months I was paying attention to every little thing. Hoping this is the month. 🤞🏻

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u/MyShipsNeverSail AGE 33 | TTC#2 since 6/26| 1/25💙| sus PMOS/IR| 1CP 2d ago

And so begins the slow BBT drop 😭