r/tryingforanother • u/AutoModerator • 5d ago

Daily Chat Thread Daily Chat - October 09, 2026

Tell us about everything! Only thing that isn't allowed is BFP and pregnancy talk - those have their own threads.

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u/pinksunglasses85 3d ago

5dpo on a timed cycle and just praying this is finally the one. But I know it’s most likely not. We’re at about 1.5 years of trying. Feels like it will never happen.

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u/outandabout91 34| TTC#2 since 2024| Unexplained| Ectopic Rupture| 3Failed IUI 4d ago

Well, got our PGT results for the single blast we got from our retreival and it is aneuoploid. So with that our dreams of having another child is gone forever. We are done trying. Closing the chapter for good now.

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u/Fun_Needleworker6697 27 | TTC#2 since 6/24 | 3 CPs + PCOS 4d ago

I’m so sorry 😔 the closing the door for good is so devastating and beyond unfair. Sending love ❤️‍🩹

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u/MyShipsNeverSail AGE 33 | TTC#2 since 6/26| 1/25💙| sus PMOS/IR| 1CP 4d ago

Wow. I'm so sorry grief has touched your life this way. Please grieve well and for as long as you need to.

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u/MyShipsNeverSail AGE 33 | TTC#2 since 6/26| 1/25💙| sus PMOS/IR| 1CP 4d ago

Think I might've gotten a FRER batch with weird indent lines. Sigh.

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u/DrZuzulu 39 | TTC#2 | Nov22 boy| May26 MMC 4d ago

Noo, was just thinking of you this morning.

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u/Fabulous_Bunch_7676 37 | TTC#3 since 8/26 | 🩵’22 🩵’24 4d ago

Cd 13 and I’m going out of town for 4 days for work starting Sunday. the worst timing!! I’m doing LH strips for the first time this month so at least I’ll have a sense of when I ovulate but feeling like this month prob won’t be it :/ 

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u/0elephant-ears0 TTW/TTC #3 since Oct 2026 4d ago

How frustrating! Do you know when you usually ovulate? 

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u/Fabulous_Bunch_7676 37 | TTC#3 since 8/26 | 🩵’22 🩵’24 4d ago

No not really but have a pretty consistent 29-30 day cycle … so I guess maybe cd16 which is Monday :(

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u/0elephant-ears0 TTW/TTC #3 since Oct 2026 4d ago edited 4d ago

Darn! I hope you end up hitting some good days before and after your trip 🤞🤞

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u/ShipRepresentative26 4d ago

I am 10 or 11 dpo, temp is way down and I'm spotting with cramps. Pretty sure I'm getting my period today. I forgot how much this sucks.

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u/ffbd39 27 | TTC#2 June ‘26| 👶🏻🩷 Jan ‘25 | CP Aug ‘26 4d ago

cd 14. i thought i was heading up to ovulation in the next couple of days but today my cm is creamy and slightly slippery. LH test at 0.03 😳 never had one that low before. Still seeing signs ovulation is approaching so i’m hoping it’ll happen in the next weekish.

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u/DrZuzulu 39 | TTC#2 | Nov22 boy| May26 MMC 4d ago

My cm usually gets white and creamy texture before ovulation too, hopefully coming soon.

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u/ffbd39 27 | TTC#2 June ‘26| 👶🏻🩷 Jan ‘25 | CP Aug ‘26 4d ago

thank you. I hope it’s the same for me! my cycles pp are still all over the place as i’m still bfing. and my last cycle after the chemical was even worse than before 😂 i don’t remember what my pattern was before getting pregnant

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u/athousandships_ 36 | TTC#3 July 26 4d ago

Same here, it's creamy/slippery until like 2-3 days before ovulation, then slowly turns into egg white consistency

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u/ffbd39 27 | TTC#2 June ‘26| 👶🏻🩷 Jan ‘25 | CP Aug ‘26 4d ago

thank you! hopefully i’ll see some changes in a couple of days. I’m feeling very “aware” of my ovaries which i usually get during my fertile window and it gets slightly crampy during ovulation so i hope we’re getting somewhere. I ovulated at cd 31 in my last cycle due to the. chemical so i’d love not having to wait that long again 😂