r/texts • u/fullmoonlune • 21h ago

Reddit DMs Why are men?

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Nothing about my profile or anything involving it would ever make it seem like I would be open to a message like this

To all the men saying “at least he asked” I was never asked if I was okay receiving an unsolicited sexual message from a stranger. Asking for consent implies that the person has already expressed some sort of sexual interest in you. Don’t message strangers sex shit. It isn’t some unalienable right to ask women if they want to fuck you. Doing that with no other preamble makes you a creep.

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u/ellie_elysian 21h ago edited 21h ago

I saw someone's screencaps where the girl was sollicited for sexting, and ended up with the guy saying "wtf bro you're weird get therapy"

Everyone wants to get freaky with the freaky girl until the girl gets freaky

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u/Due-Quote4091 20h ago

A guy called me a loser and that I needed professional help the other day while sexting because I said I liked bondage. Like jfc just play along and jerk your miserable self off

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u/bookishdeceit 17h ago

I have a friend whose boyfriend told her he wanted to spice it up in the bedroom, she bought a bondage set to surprise him, and the guy called her a whore and compared her to a prostitute. Dudes can be so over the top 😭

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u/Meeeeoowwwwwww 12h ago

Please tell me me she broke up with him what the actual fuck 😭😭😭

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u/bookishdeceit 12h ago

She did not! And what he said was a lot worse than what I outlined, but I felt inappropriate staying it. They've been on and off since before that comment and still are. It's very unfortunate

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u/Meeeeoowwwwwww 12h ago

Ughhhhh poor girl :( That makes me so sad. I hope that you give her love and tell her she shouldn’t be treated like that. It’s hard to get out of relationships like that when you think it’s all you deserve :(