r/texts • u/fullmoonlune • 21h ago

Reddit DMs Why are men?

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Nothing about my profile or anything involving it would ever make it seem like I would be open to a message like this

To all the men saying “at least he asked” I was never asked if I was okay receiving an unsolicited sexual message from a stranger. Asking for consent implies that the person has already expressed some sort of sexual interest in you. Don’t message strangers sex shit. It isn’t some unalienable right to ask women if they want to fuck you. Doing that with no other preamble makes you a creep.

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u/BigSD325 14h ago

The guy is a creep shooting his shot. But I have to ask OP. How did he find you? Were you commenting something sexual in another sub? Not making excuses for the tactless creep I am just genuinely curious as to why he thought there was even a small chance this might work.

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u/fullmoonlune 14h ago

I literally have no idea how he found me. I find the idea of participating in any sort of sexual activity on reddit personally repulsive so I definitely never would’ve been found in that manner

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u/BigSD325 12h ago

Fascinating. Thanks for clarifying. I get randomly hit up by people asking me to invest in stuff or straight up asking for money. But your experience is quite different! I guess it can be as simple as pervs seeing what they perceive as a female avatar.