I’m 18 years old, living in Boerne, Texas, and I genuinely don’t know what to do anymore. I’m posting because I need advice from people who understand Texas tenant laws, bankruptcy, debt, or have been through something similar.
I know this is long, but PLEASE read everything before judging me. I have been trying so hard to get my life together, and it feels like everything is falling apart at the exact same time.
BACKGROUND — WHY I MOVED HERE
I moved into my very first apartment on August 21, 2026. It’s a two-bedroom apartment, and my rent is approximately $1,264 a month before additional charges.
I moved to Boerne largely because of a caregiving job opportunity. I genuinely loved my apartment. It’s quiet, I have my own space, and I was proud of myself for getting my first place at 18.
I wasn’t expecting everything to become so unstable this quickly.
THE JOB SITUATION — MY HOURS BASICALLY DISAPPEARED
I work in caregiving through Inspired Care Solutions.
I was previously working overnight shifts, and that income was supposed to help me maintain my apartment and pay my bills.
Then, without much warning, the client I was primarily assigned to discontinued nighttime services.
I woke up to find my scheduled shifts had disappeared.
I was told they would try to get me more hours, but I went through an extended period with practically no work. I also missed a shift on October 1 because of severe flooding and unsafe driving conditions.
I kept asking for shifts because I NEED to work. I have bills, rent, a car payment, and other financial responsibilities.
I wasn’t refusing to work. I was available and actively asking for more hours.
I eventually got a second caregiving job through Home Instead. I’ve started picking up shifts there, but the income isn’t arriving quickly enough to resolve my current housing situation.
I’m also working other jobs and looking for additional income whenever possible.
THE RENT/FLEX SITUATION
I use a service called Flex to split my rent into payments.
For October, I submitted my rent payment through Flex on October 2.
My apartment portal showed that my rent was paid and that my balance was $0.
Then everything changed.
The payment was apparently reversed because of an account-related issue, and suddenly my rent was unpaid again.
To make things worse, I haven’t been able to log into my Flex account properly, and getting useful support has been extremely difficult.
I understand that the money wasn’t successfully withdrawn, but I was under the impression that my rent had been taken care of because of what the portal showed.
Between this issue and the loss of my caregiving hours, I ended up unable to pay October’s rent.
NOW I’M FACING EVICTION
On October 12, I received a notice from my apartment regarding nonpayment of rent.
I’ve been communicating with the leasing office, and they told me that if I move out before October 25, they will not proceed with an eviction filing.
However, they explained that moving out doesn’t mean I can just walk away from the lease.
According to the leasing office, my rent would be accelerated through the remaining lease term, then adjusted when someone else rents the apartment.
They also said I would owe the reletting fee specified in my lease, along with my current balance and applicable fees.
My lease lists a $3,500 early termination option, with a 60-day written notice requirement. I’m not sure how that option interacts with my current nonpayment situation or the reletting charges they’re describing.
They said I may be able to arrange payments after moving out to avoid collections, provided I establish an arrangement within 30 days.
I’m terrified of having an eviction on my record at 18 years old, but I’m equally terrified of owing thousands of dollars for an apartment I’m no longer living in.
I’ve contacted 211 for rental assistance. I was referred to a local resource, but I haven’t found an immediate solution.
I also received conflicting information about eviction timelines, so I’m confused about what the notice actually means legally.
HERE’S THE CRAZIEST PART — I JUST GOT A CRUISE SHIP JOB
While all of this has been happening, I’ve been applying to other jobs.
I interviewed with American Cruise Lines for a serving position, and I got the job.
I’ve completed onboarding paperwork, and they confirmed receipt of my background check and drug screening results.
Today, October 12, they contacted me about starting training on October 19 — literally one week away.
I also have a mandatory virtual orientation on October 14.
The job is a temporary assignment described in my paperwork as 28 weeks. The position is approximately $10 an hour plus tips, and I was told tips could potentially be around $1,000 weekly, although I know that isn’t guaranteed.
This could genuinely be an opportunity for me to earn money, reduce my living expenses while working away from home, and start rebuilding financially.
But I have NO idea how to handle everything before leaving.
They said travel information won’t be sent until 36–72 hours after orientation, meaning I might not receive my itinerary until October 15–17.
I don’t even know whether I will return home after training or go directly to my assigned ship.
If I go straight to the ship, I might need to have my entire living situation handled THIS WEEKEND.
MY CATS, FURNITURE, AND CAR
I have cats, and obviously I’m not going to abandon them.
Originally, my mother was potentially going to help care for them, but she has expressed concerns about taking care of that many cats and has suggested rehoming them.
I’m not comfortable giving them away simply because I’m taking a temporary job.
I’m trying to figure out whether I can find someone trustworthy to keep them while I’m away.
I also have an entire two-bedroom apartment full of furniture and belongings.
I don’t have money sitting around for a moving truck, storage unit, or movers.
If I break my lease, I have to figure out where everything goes.
And then there’s my car.
It’s unreliable, and I’ve already been dealing with financial problems involving it.
MY DEBT SITUATION
This is where everything gets even more complicated.
I have an auto loan with a recent payoff quote of approximately $18,062.
I also owe money related to a previous car accident. I was unknowingly uninsured at the time. Nobody was injured, but there was property damage to the other person’s vehicle.
The amount I’ve been told is approximately $11,205 with a payment arrangement or around $12,000 without one.
So between just the auto loan and accident-related debt, I’m looking at roughly $29,000–$30,000.
That’s before my other debts, possible lease termination charges, and remaining bills.
I’ve been considering voluntarily surrendering my car because it’s unreliable and I don’t know if keeping it makes financial sense.
I also have other financial obligations, including my phone bill, insurance, and personal debts.
I am not trying to avoid responsibility for everything. I just don’t know how I could realistically pay all of this with my current income.
I’M CONSIDERING BANKRUPTCY AT 18
I contacted a bankruptcy attorney and have an initial phone consultation scheduled for Thursday, October 15.
I’m hoping to discuss whether Chapter 7 bankruptcy could make sense in my situation.
I want to understand whether bankruptcy could address the auto loan deficiency if I surrender the vehicle, the accident-related property damage debt, and any lease-related debt.
I’m especially concerned about whether the accident debt is dischargeable and whether filing bankruptcy would affect my housing situation.
I understand bankruptcy has serious consequences, and I don’t want to rush into it without understanding my options.
But I’m already facing potentially enormous debts at 18, and I don’t know if trying to pay everything back over several years is realistic.
MY BIGGEST FEAR IS MY FUTURE
If I move out before October 25, I may be able to avoid an eviction filing, based on what my apartment manager told me.
But I’ll potentially have a broken lease, thousands in debt, and possibly a bankruptcy on my credit report.
When my cruise assignment ends, where am I supposed to live?
Will another apartment approve me?
Will I need a cosigner?
Will I have to pay off the previous apartment before another landlord will rent to me?
I don’t want to spend the next several years being unable to rent an apartment because of decisions I made at 18.
At the same time, keeping an apartment I may not live in for months while struggling to pay rent seems financially irresponsible.
HERE ARE THE QUESTIONS I REALLY NEED HELP WITH:
In Texas, if I move out after receiving a notice to vacate but before an eviction lawsuit is filed, can I avoid having an eviction on my record? What documentation should I request from the landlord?
Can my apartment charge me for the remaining lease term AND a reletting fee? How do I determine which charges are actually enforceable?
Would it make more sense to surrender the apartment before October 25, or attempt to negotiate a payment arrangement and keep it?
If I file Chapter 7 bankruptcy, could it potentially include debt from breaking my lease, my auto loan deficiency, and property damage from an accident where I was uninsured?
If I voluntarily surrender my financed vehicle, what happens to the remaining loan balance?
How difficult is it to rent another apartment after a broken lease or bankruptcy, especially if I have several months of stable income and savings afterward?
Are there Texas legal aid organizations or emergency housing resources I should contact immediately?
Has anyone worked for American Cruise Lines? Do employees typically go directly from training to their ship, or do they return home first?
If you were in my position, would you take the cruise job, put your belongings in storage, find temporary care for your pets, and use the next several months to rebuild financially?
Is there something obvious I’m missing that could prevent me from making a really expensive mistake?
MY CURRENT TIMELINE:
October 12: Received the apartment notice and confirmed my cruise training dates.
October 14: Mandatory American Cruise Lines Zoom orientation.
October 15: Bankruptcy attorney consultation.
October 17–18: Potentially my last weekend home before leaving.
October 19: Proposed cruise training start date.
October 25: Deadline my apartment manager gave me to move out before an eviction filing.
I am genuinely exhausted.
I moved out at 18 because I wanted to be independent and build a stable life for myself. I got jobs, kept applying for opportunities, tried to communicate with my employers, and tried to find ways to pay my bills.
Now I’m potentially packing up my first apartment less than two months after moving in.
I’m scared of making the wrong decision, scared of ruining my credit, scared of losing my housing options, and scared of what happens when the cruise job ends.
I don’t need people telling me I shouldn’t have moved out at 18. I already know my situation is complicated.
I need practical, realistic advice about what I should do this week, what questions I should ask my attorney, and how to protect my future as much as possible.
If you’ve been through bankruptcy, a Texas eviction, an early lease termination, or worked on a cruise ship, I would genuinely appreciate your perspective.
Thank you for reading all of this.