r/comingout • • 8h ago

Meme So. Heres a funny story.

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Recently discovered i was bisexual.

Remembered this guy who called me that bad gay word and I decided to go back and tell him he was right.

Another thing I remembered was my cousin saying "If I land this your gay" and missed so he said "If I land this you are bi" and he landed it. So uhh yeah my cousin discovered i was bi before I did.

Im not gonna tell anyone because my whole friend group is woke bisexual christians and if I tell anyone it will just get repetitive. So i gotta be unique.

Idk if this is against the community rules but yeah.


r/comingout • • 9h ago

Advice Needed How to tell my wife I’m bisexual???

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So I have started having feelings for men for a while but I still love women. Especially my wife and I have came to terms I’m bisexual after researching several lgbtq sexuality’s that would fit ehat I was starting to fill.

Now I just want to tell my wife I’m bisexual because I’d absolutely love to explore with men. But only with her permission of course but I’m absolutely nervous and terrified she’d hate me or want a divorce or even maybe just be disgusted with me. I just need advice on how to tell her.

I don’t even know if she’s homophobic either.


r/comingout • • 16h ago

Advice Needed How do you handle disagreements with your parents as an adult?

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Hi all, I'm working through something with my therapist and would love to hear from people raised in India. The context is someone getting ready to come out to his parents back home, but your experiences help whether you're LGBTQ+ or not.

\- Have you disagreed with your parents about something big? How did it go?
\- Did you ever just agree to disagree? How did you both move on?
\- How did you get your parents to treat you as an adult?
\- (*Optional, LGBTQ+ folks)* If you came out to your parents, what helped most?

Thank you, it genuinely means a lot.


r/comingout • • 18h ago

Advice Needed I keep flipf flopping on if I should come out or not

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So i am out to 4 ppl my brother, sister, and 2 friends, 2 of 4 asked me, i told 3 of 4 in text, I still have most of my family who don't know, I keeo going "why should I need to come out" to "maybe i should come out" I tell myself I dont care if ppl find out and that's mostly true, but then I don't take chances when given to say anything and get all awkward, I think there is part of me that feels shame, I dont think it's necessary i am ashamed I'm gay just... i don't really know how to explain it.

If anyone has any advice on what I should do I'd greatly appreciate it, I am awkward shy and struggle with talking about how I feel with my loved ones, a hard time being vulnerable.

I am a 26 year old gay male, my family is safe to tell


r/comingout • • 9h ago

Help Me encantaría que me dieras algunos consejos <3 (HELP)

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r/comingout • • 22h ago

Advice Needed Thinking of coming out to my family at dinner

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