r/atx4atx • • 6h ago

Friends 33m gay. Any laid back bi dudes in Austin TX want to hang out?

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For some reason, I only meet people who are straight or gay, but I don't know anyone who's truly bisexual. It would be cool to find some bi bros to just chat with and grab a beer. Straight, gay, or other bros are obviously welcome too haha. The idea of bonding over a campfire on a weekend trip, or grabbing beers at a neighborhood dive bar, sounds amazing. If we can get a close-knit small group, even better.

About me. African and American. I enjoy playing and watching soccer, coffee shops, hiking, camping, EDM. I'm fitness-oriented and look after myself, and prefer hanging out with others around my age who do the same. In an open relationship, but more focused on friendships lately. I generally gravitate toward more masculine interests, and I'm looking to connect with guys who share similar energy.

Is this something others experience or are curious about, or am I just looking in the wrong places?


r/atx4atx • • 2d ago

Date Weekend Trip to Sick New World

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Its very simple

Im a metal head male 26yrs looking for a plus one for the festival, im planning to leave Friday evening for the DFW area, stay at a Hampton Hotel, leave sunday evening back home etc etc, definitely stopping at buccees both ways. Idk if im the youngest here but def would like to extend the invite to anyone seeking a blind experience 🙃


r/atx4atx • • 2d ago

Date help me with the blues! Come with me to Austin Film Society. ~^~

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the movies be the best. foreign, independent, esoteric. who's down to appreciate fine cinematography? founded by Linklater, director of Waking Life and Scanner Darkly. with music by Graham Reynolds.

im trying to up my game on my film literacy. it would be nice to be accompanied with with a fine rad date. we can be critical of the movies and have fun too.

39/male


r/atx4atx • • 2d ago

Activity Partner looking for some biker frens!

1 Upvotes

hello. this is my bid to make some rider friends. i’m 28 and i ride a z650 and from kyle. i welcome anyone. rode in sc w a bunch of harleys and cruisers, if you’re a biker, you’re a biker. just tryna hop on that cardo group chat and riiiiiide!!! stay safe yall (:


r/atx4atx • • 3d ago

Long Term 32 [M4F] - Looking for someone to be a potential partner

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Hey y’all! I’m seeing what’s out there on Reddit as in to see if there is someone who potentially vibes with my interests.

I’m a huge leftist and part of the DSA. I’m very interested in the labor and environmental issues occurring and trying to make a difference in there in any form of fashion.

Huge chatterbox at times, but I also very much need my privacy and alone time. I love to listen and care a lot about those who are close to me (they are part of your community). I definitely am one who overthinks everything and is very aware of my privacy in this tech era!

I prefer doing things in person more so online as we tread more and more to a tech focused society, appreciating the in person moments and conversations we have. I enjoy watching films of all varieties, reading and learning random factoids that would potentially help in trivia, play board games when the crowd is right, and just started working out.

Would love someone who has a few of those interests or is one who is interested in traveling around and collaborating on art projects. Especially would love someone to join me on hiking trips! I went to my first national park and am hooked!!!


r/atx4atx • • 3d ago

Friends 23M looking for friends (especially but not exclusively creative hobbies)

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Hi folks! I've been in Austin for a tad under a year, I moved from elsewhere in the States so I'm disconnected from the bulk of my social network.

My biggest hobby is creative writing (short stories, screenplays, and I may expand to novels) which tends to be a solo activity.

A bit more about myself: I'm into reading, movies, CD collecting, walking in parks, and cooking. I'm also an early riser so I don't really do nightlife. Heads up that I'm 100% sober (no judgement whatsoever if you're not) and I'm a person of color.

If any of this sounds interesting, feel free to shoot me a DM! If you're a creative, would love to meet up and learn what you're working on! Down to connect with creatives and non-creatives alike over a stroll, casual bite, or coffee (decaf for me, lol.)


r/atx4atx • • 3d ago

Long Term 22 [M4F] - Looking for a long-term relationship with someone special

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Hello! I am a major nerd in the Austin area and I am looking for a genuine connection with someone. Someone who I can chat with and get to know well and see where things go!

I am very into video games, movies, horror, lego, art, etc. And I am a musician, and am currently working on an album! I play lots of different instruments as well.

I am 5'9"ish, very slim build, longish curly brown hair, ans two different colored eyes 👀. I suppose I should be upfront about this as I think physical attraction is important, but I am really only into curvy/bigger women, but I am happy to chat with anyone :)

Just shoot me a message if you want to chat!


r/atx4atx • • 4d ago

Date Hockey at HEB Center

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47m looking to find someone to attend a few hockeys game at the HEB Center. I picked up a couple tickets for a company provided suite then lost my plus 1 so have an extra ticket for someone interested in some hockey.


r/atx4atx • • 4d ago

Activity Partner [52M4A] Any other Gen-X folks interested to Asee Jesus & Mary Chain

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Gen X guy love 90s music & concerts in general. Anyone going or would be interested in going to the show on 10/31 at Far Out. Or just down to see other concerts that may pop up, happy hours etc. thanks


r/atx4atx • • 5d ago

Friends Seeking crafty friends to help with Halloween costume project

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Hey hey 🎃
So I’ve made some posts before and have had success meeting awesome people on atx4atx.

Am currently trying to create a Frank bunny costume from Donnie Darko. If you love making cosplay costumes and ren faire shenanigans please hmu since I go to the Todd mission one every year with a solid group of friends.

It would be very cool if you have experience with a sewing machine and costume making since I’m kinda diving into it. I pick things up pretty quickly but someone usually has to show me.
I have taken a few shortcuts to make things easier but still need some help!


r/atx4atx • • 4d ago

Date [M4F] I’m 26M and looking for a genuine date and get to know someone.

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I’m 26 and struggling to find any sort of meaningful new relationship. I have no interest in hooking up with people, i sincerely want to get to know some one and share my interests with.

I’m a professional cook and have cooked In kitchens for 10 years, I’m obsessed with science and physics, I play a few instruments, music is a gigantic passion aswell (I’m 5’11” 180lb)


r/atx4atx • • 5d ago

FWB [M4F] 49 A Friendship of Passionate Benefits

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Seeking a woman who is interested in developing a friendship first, and then exploring passion.

I'm a gentleman with natural leadership qualities, but I'm not a jerk about them. People have described me as a "silver fox"; I look a bit younger than my age. I'm intelligent, witty, in reasonably good shape, d/d free and single. I live in Austin. I have a good sense of humor and an infectious laugh. I'm about 6' tall with broad shoulders, and love tender, passionate kissing.

I tend to click best with a woman who is attracted to a man with gentlemanly qualities, and is intrigued by the notion of passionate physical intimacy.

Whether you've experienced this kind of passion before or not, if you're single and this sounds intriguing, let's chat!


r/atx4atx • • 8d ago

Date 42 [M4F] genuine companionship

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42M, Indian techie in Austin. Independent, curious, love deep conversations, trying random things, traveling, music, movies, sports etc. I think I just miss having an emotional connection and genuine companionship. I have been living in the US ~22 years.

Not necessarily looking to jump straight into a relationship. I’d just like to meet someone I actually connect with, talk, hang out occasionally, and see where it goes.

If you’re somewhere in the same boat, feel free to comment or DM me. :)


r/atx4atx • • 8d ago

Friends Missed Connection: Loathe Concert

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My bf and I were at the loathe show at Stubb’s and there was another couple there that we very briefly talked/joked with. They also tried to go further into the crowd with us but we got split up. I wanted to try and find them after the show but wasn’t able to and feel kinda sad about it!!

I was wearing a black & white off the shoulder top & white shorts. Bf was in black shirt and grey shorts. I joked about getting in the middle of the pit just to make out with him. The guy in the couple also told his gf that he trusted me & my bf with her life if she ended up too separated from him while we were moving through the crowd.

Consider this my message in a bottle hoping it shows up to the right person!


r/atx4atx • • 9d ago

Activity Partner Anyone going to Mississippi for the Nolan Wells march?

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[40/f] I'ma a community organizer who has been following the developments of Nolan Wells' death and I'm wondering if there are any organizations in Austin planning to caravan or carpool to Mississippi on November 1 to stand with community for Nolan Wells.


r/atx4atx • • 9d ago

Friends 33M, looking for like-minded people in Austin

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Meeting people is easy. Keeping friendships, now that's a different story! I figured I would try this out, write a novel, and see what comes of it. Tldr: gay man seeks genuine, platonic friends into EDM, soccer, improv, fitness, and more.

I've been in Austin for some time now, and I do have a few good friends, but sometimes I feel like there is this other demographic of friends I'm severely missing out on. I'm a gay man, and I came out in Austin. Most of my friends are straight and don't spend much time in gay spaces. Hence, it feels a bit like the current version of myself is left out. I've given it a go through the apps to meet gay men, but guys on the apps seem only focused on one thing, and it's not friendships. I welcome gay, straight, bi, and the full spectrum. If you have similar interests and values and put in mutual effort, we'll get along great! I'm in a relationship as well, and so I'm not looking to date, to be fully transparent. We have been looking into the possibility of moving, simply because we don't feel like we have found our people here in Austin yet!

More about me. I enjoy hanging out with people of similar age - 30s, mature 20s, youthful 40s. My gay age is 10 - I started coming out around 22 and up until I was fully out at 26. I describe myself as a cross between a gym-bro, a jock, and a geek, but don't identify with any of the labels. Internally, I'm more of a next-door guy who enjoys closeness with good people. Love to plan trips and don't have my trusted travel crew yet aside from my partner, so it would be great to find those people. Love EDM, been to Ultra 3 times and going again next year. Oliver Heldens is my current DJ favorite. Fisher is such a vibe too - my only overnight rave so far was to see him and it was a blast. Also considering Electric Forest soon. Love to find a rave crew for these things! Into (and obsessed with) both playing and watching soccer. Liverpool FC. I play CB these days. Bf plays and watches as well. Overwatch friends - yes please! I'm not great or a hardcore regular at the game, but can hold my own and play strategic. Down to go see or do some improv too. I'm on the lookout for a new troupe with a fun and social vibe. Or folks who will regularly join me at the improv jams. Or go see weekly shows. Couple friends would be amazing too. We enjoy dive bars, cocktail bars, coffee shops, Austin FC games (more for the vibes since the team sucks), the occasional nights out at gay, straight, mixed clubs, also grill-outs and things of that sort. We watch shows like Big Brother and are wanting to get into weekly watch parties for Survivor, if you're into setting up watch parties in public or at our place or yours. We're in an open relationship, but I rarely actually take advantage of this freedom as I tend to be much more interested in mental stimulation than physical.

On a deeper level, I grew up in an emotion-shy household (I'm Nigerian - mom was a gem though in this area) and then discovered my emotional side as I grew older and came out of the closet, and so I find myself most interested in hanging out with people who are also deep thinkers and emotionally open. I'm open-minded to wellness practices, although I am not super knowledgeable about them. Never done a wellness retreat but open to it. Direct communicator, but I'm learning to soften my language at times haha. Regular gym-goer and have been since college. While I'm not necessarily looking for a gym partner, I'm open. More importantly, looking for folks who share similar passion for fitness and exercise and are fully committed to it. I also like to think I'm a fairly attractive and self-confident guy, and I enjoy being around people who feel the same way. Having friends who are clear in their intentions does help a lot.

If you're still reading, and are not secretly just looking to hook up, DM me, tell me about you, include the things you're most afraid for me to learn about you so we get that out of the way now haha, and let's grab a coffee sometime! :)


r/atx4atx • • 10d ago

Friends looking for friends in their 20s

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hi,

I (23NB les) recently moved back to the city & I’m looking for queer and/or latino friends in Austin

a bit about me: I’m very left leaning (& very comfortable talking/learning about politics), 1st gen Mexican-American, & pretty much into anything having to do with movies/tv or sociology. I like going out (i loveee Tuezgayz @ Barbs), thrifting (& marketplace/estate sale hunting), watching anything (movies, music videos, etc.), smoking at a nice spot or with friends, & unironically “talking about the political & economic state of the world rn”. I’m in the east Austin area, but I’m honestly all over town usually.

lmk if you’d wanna connect <3


r/atx4atx • • 12d ago

Date Missed Connection @ Oak Hill Lounge....

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I (31F) met a super cool guy named D*** at this bar tonight and was too shy to ask for his number... but he's a consultant and just got back from a biz trip and had some old fashionds while I had some beers and jameson shots (he frequents this sub...) r/Austin please "do your thang" and find my future husband/shuffleboard partner!!!!!!!! :)

(D, if you're reading this... Hi :) and thank you for the free vape lol and let's see Dave Chappell!!!)


r/atx4atx • • 11d ago

Long Term 35M4F - Gamer guy seeking partner.

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Hey hey, I'm 35M, single and live in South Austin. I've been here for about 13 years. Moved to the states from Russia 23 years ago.

I'm a relatively goofy person that likes to be playful and bully affectionately haha. In my free time I like playing video games with friends, shoot shit in discord, 3d print random things (ATM working on cosplay armor) working out and finding recipes to copy. I have insomnia that drains me sometimes so I can be a grump at times, but I'm working on fixing my problem.

I'm 6 and slim build, once I can start working out that will change (insomnia fucks me), I'm clean, 420 friendly, and hygienic. Please have an introduction and a picture, I'll send some back (one best and average haha).

Thanks for reading, and hopefully I'll see you laterrrr.


r/atx4atx • • 12d ago

Activity Partner 29M Anyone wanna go for horror movies together?

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I love horror movies but absolutely none of my friends are into them. With so many nice ones coming on, I'd love to have friends to go watch horror movies with. I have a nice horror movie collection of my own too.


r/atx4atx • • 12d ago

Friends 28F Downtown Austin — looking for Viet/Filipino friends

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Hi!! I’m 28F, single, and live downtown! I moved to Austin from Florida earlier this year and would love to make more Vietnamese/Filipino friends and build more of an Asian community around me here

A little about me: I’m 5’1” and I’m definitely a girly girl. Personality-wise I’m a little introverted at first, but once I’m comfortable I’m outgoing, talkative, and down for random adventures. I don’t drink, but I still love going out and will happily be there with my little mocktail lol.

If you’re down to try new restaurants, grab coffee/matcha, workout, walk the trail, paddle board, climb, pole dance, go to concourse project, or any random side quest hmu!

I’m downtown so bonus points if you’re nearby and are up for spontaneous hangouts

Mostly looking for genuine friendships and a friend group I can hang out with butttt I am single so if I happen to meet someone cute along the way I’m not going to complain hehe

Looking forward to meeting you :)


r/atx4atx • • 13d ago

Friends Recurring, casual, low-cost events to make friends

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Hello! Posted in another ATX group before my post was removed and told to post here. But thanks to anyone who already replied on the other post!

I am a 30sF looking to make genuine friendships and build community in Austin. Have tried a variety of hobbies/classes/social dancing. I really want something that is recurring (weekly or every other week at least) for the consistency piece and overall casual and not super expensive (or free). It feels there are so many one-time events around town. Basically looking for a third place to make friendships naturally overtime in a relatively small group and calm environment (HSPs unite!) where people show up consistently. Also events at a reasonable time for those of us who wake up early and have to work. I enjoy walking, nature, deeper convos/ spirituality convos, latin dance, reading, gardening. Preferably looking for spaces that are diverse as well. Preferably central, east, or south Austin. Thank you!


r/atx4atx • • 16d ago

Friends 26M Looking for friends into Crossdressing or cool w/ it

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Hi friends! I recently moved to ATX from NYC. I am an avid crossdresser and am planning to go out for halloween to a bunch of parties and out in general and would love to have some friends to go with!

Open to anyone that is a good vibe! Preferably someone one close to my age would be ideal :)


r/atx4atx • • 16d ago

Friends Anyone else looking to expand their friend group in Austin? (26M)

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Hey everyone! I’m looking to meet more people and make some new friends around Austin.

I’m a 26 year old guy, born and raised in Austin and have lived here for 24 years. I know the city pretty well and can definitely show you some of the lesser-known spots around town, whether it’s good food, bars, activities, or just cool places to hang out.

I have a degree in finance and would love to meet people around my age who are also looking to get out on the weekends, try new things, grab food or drinks, go out, or just hang out.

If you’re also looking to expand your social circle, feel free to reach out. Always down to meet some new people and show you around Austin!


r/atx4atx • • 17d ago

Friends need people to hike with in austin

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hello, i’m looking for people to go hiking with in and around austin. what would you recommend, or the best method to finding these people? i’d like to eventually just travel and hike or backpack around the us also. m26 if anyone’s wondering.