First of all I’m posting on a throwaway because I don’t want my face on the Reddit I usually use to comment haha. I’m 36f* (sorry I fat fingered the title, I’m 36 not 38 yet lol), I’m a mom of 2- so I know I have weight to lose. But am I ugly? I’ve been told I was more than once & also called a butter face, but I’d love to hear truthful opinions- obviously my husband or friends or parents aren’t going to tell me I’m ugly! A couple pics I have makeup on but for the majority the only makeup is my eyebrows (as you can see in a few makeup free pics, my eyebrows are so light you can’t see them 🥲) which is the only makeup I usually wear daily. The last 2 pics are what I look like with absolutely nothing at all- not doing my hair; not doing my makeup, nothing.
Any suggestions, also? Would love to look better but don’t really know what I should change. My natural hair color is dark blonde/light brown, the red hair was something my SIL in cosmetology school did & I think it suited me better than my natural hair but maybe I’m wrong lol would love to hear opinions.

Yes, i should post WITH makeup, but i need your toughts.

Im curious. Feel like I'm pretty in the middle.

it was difficult to find photos of myself for this post; i hate taking pictures of myself these days. i take them sometimes when there’s some event or on the rare occasion i bother to do my makeup, but i really don’t like anything about the way i look anymore. i’m exhausted all the time. i’ve got so much bullshit beating me down constantly and i feel like it shows through, even when i’m smiling for a picture.

my face is too round, eyes too tired, teeth too big, hair too frizzy. i feel everything about me is just wrong.

there was a time that i was tired and anxious and depressed but i felt like at least i was kind of cute when i dressed up or put on makeup. but now all that just feels like some futile attempt to pretend that i’m a functioning person. it just feels like a costume. i don’t feel like myself. i don’t like looking in the mirror. i don’t like having my picture made. i don’t like my face or my body or anything.

i feel like if i could just be pretty— like actually pretty- that everything else wouldn’t be so damn hard. i know that sounds shallow and vain and all of the other egotistical words, but it’s true.
or at the very least it sure as hell wouldn’t hurt.

i carry a lot of my weight in my belly (well, everywhere but the belly is the most noticeable) my double chin sticks out and it does bother me a lot. recently lost 20lbs- shoutout to my gallbladder girlies- but now i’m really struggling to lose weight.
am i pretty? like, besides that? lmk tysm
edit- 25f, 260lbs 5’3….

I’ve been told a lot that I’m ugly

Unsure why my post keeps being taken down 😭

am i chopped?! i get a lot of male attention but idk if it’s because im good looking or i have a fat ass 😭😆 pics without and with makeup

Almost 39 and having fun
Live life boldly and without regrets
Be confident and brave in your own skin
You a worth so much more than all the riches in the world

heres a better angle and a smile. 🖤