r/FreeCompliments • • Nov 24 '24

ModPost MONDAY: [Male] Only Days!

53 Upvotes

Hello everyone,

On Mondays you will now only be able to post if you are a male (or in transition) and are posting a selfie. All other posts will be removed by our modteam and you will be given a 3 day ban if you do post on Male Mondays as a female subreddit user.

Male Mondays will start on Monday at around 00:00 and continue until 23:00 UTC

However no worries for our female userbase! You will still be able to post on any other day of the week!

Reasons for the set up of male monday only days:

You might have noticed that most of the post on our Front Page are females looking for compliments. We have noticed that their posts get the most upvotes and that our male contributors get a lot less upvotes and therefore compliments on our subreddit.

A couple of years ago this wasn't the case as much but we have seen this trend increase more and more on this subreddit over the years,

Because of that we have set up Male Mondays. Where on Mondays we would only allow males to post on the subreddit. In hopes of making sure that they too get the compliments they deserve and don't get snowed under in this sub.

If you want to help our modteam with the moderation of our subreddit please send me a chat through reddit


r/FreeCompliments • • 1d ago

ModPost MONDAY: [Male] Only Days!

4 Upvotes

Hello everyone,

On Mondays you will now only be able to post if you are a male (or in transition) and are posting a selfie. All other posts will be removed by our modteam and you will be given a 3 day ban if you do post on Male Mondays as a female subreddit user.

Male Mondays will start on Monday at around 00:00 and continue until 23:00 UTC

However no worries for our female userbase! You will still be able to post on any other day of the week!

Reasons for the set up of male monday only days:

You might have noticed that most of the post on our Front Page are females looking for compliments. We have noticed that their posts get the most upvotes and that our male contributors get a lot less upvotes and therefore compliments on our subreddit.

A couple of years ago this wasn't the case as much but we have seen this trend increase more and more on this subreddit over the years,

Because of that we have set up Male Mondays. Where on Mondays we would only allow males to post on the subreddit. In hopes of making sure that they too get the compliments they deserve and don't get snowed under in this sub.

If you want to help our modteam with the moderation of our subreddit please send me a chat through reddit


r/FreeCompliments • • 10h ago

Male Selfie 36 [male] Going through a difficult chapter in life. Could really use a little kindness today.

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59 Upvotes

[REPOST - my post was removed earlier this morning]

I’ve been navigating some pretty major life transitions lately, and honestly, it’s been a difficult chapter.

I’ve struggled with my mental health and self-image for a long time, and lately I’ve found myself being particularly hard on myself.

Sometimes I think I just want to feel seen. To feel attractive, appreciated, or simply reminded that there’s something good about me that I might not always recognize myself.

Even posting this feels strangely vulnerable. Part of me worries about seeming self-centered for seeking validation, but I think we all need a little kindness and reassurance sometimes.

So here’s me putting myself out there today. ❤️
Any genuine encouragement or compliments would mean a lot, especially right now.


r/FreeCompliments • • 4h ago

Male Selfie I just really need a pick me up with some compliments. [Male]

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11 Upvotes

r/FreeCompliments • • 11h ago

Male Selfie I hope everyone has a great week, so glad fall is here! [male]

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14 Upvotes

r/FreeCompliments • • 1d ago

Male Selfie Over thinking stuff and over stressed. I've got to remember to smile. [Male]

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23 Upvotes

Y'all know how life gets sometimes. Bills, cars breaking down, kids, school, just everything. Shit piles up and sometimes it gets hard to breath. Y'all are always a breath of fresh air.


r/FreeCompliments • • 1d ago

Female Selfie [Female] Been feeling rather down lately. Could use a pick-me-up.

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57 Upvotes

Had some tough things happen lately and been feeling rather lonely and struggling with depression for a long time and not having many friends to talk to. Any kind words would be greatly appreciated.


r/FreeCompliments • • 1d ago

Female Selfie Some kindness please [female]

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118 Upvotes

I’ve been feeling down lately. Trying to work on my self esteem and confidence.


r/FreeCompliments • • 1d ago

Male Selfie [male] Been feeling a bit isolated lately and unwanted :/

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55 Upvotes

r/FreeCompliments • • 1d ago

Male Selfie [Male] Today I was Jax fan

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7 Upvotes

r/FreeCompliments • • 2d ago

Female Selfie 35 [female] first Halloween look of the season!

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97 Upvotes

r/FreeCompliments • • 2d ago

Female Selfie [female] I’ve had depression for like 10 yrs and I don’t know what true happiness feels like anymore

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55 Upvotes

Also I know I’m ugly and it really sucks. I wish I could be like some other women who are naturally beautiful. I know I have a decent personality, I just want to be pretty. I’m tired of having to wear a lot of makeup just to feel somewhat pretty. I don’t always like the feeling of makeup on my skin


r/FreeCompliments • • 2d ago

Female Selfie Been sick these last few days, looking for a bit of confidence [female]

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86 Upvotes

r/FreeCompliments • • 2d ago

Male Selfie [male] Found out today I was being cheated on by my ex the entire year that we dated. Really feeling down :(

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36 Upvotes

r/FreeCompliments • • 2d ago

Trans Selfie 20 [female] 🩷💫 been feeling down lately, I'm getting started with my transition but idk I'm just not feeling myself quite yet

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38 Upvotes

I guess it's dysphoria but it gets so tiring all I can hear is a voice in the back of my head telling me I look like a guy , I'd love some reassurance/just general affirmation if that's oki tyyy 🩷


r/FreeCompliments • • 3d ago

Female Selfie Feeling down because I got told that I’m basically unattractive [female]

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270 Upvotes

I know I need to lose some weight and smile more, I’m just feeling down about my looks especially my nose, forehead and jawline. Give me something to feel happy about lol

Edit: forgot to mention I’m 27


r/FreeCompliments • • 3d ago

Female Selfie [female]happy Friday

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62 Upvotes

r/FreeCompliments • • 5d ago

Female Selfie [Repost. Mostly] Seeking compliments for extremely legitimate medical reasons. [Female]

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189 Upvotes

Now y'all get to see the zit patch I tried to edit out last time. :')


r/FreeCompliments • • 6d ago

Male Selfie [Male] good morning everyone!

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22 Upvotes

r/FreeCompliments • • 6d ago

Male Selfie [Male]38, been feeling run down and dealing with a handful of injuries lately, including a spinal fusion

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19 Upvotes

r/FreeCompliments • • 6d ago

Female Selfie [Female] I took this on my birthday celebration

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112 Upvotes

r/FreeCompliments • • 6d ago

Female Selfie [Female] Lazy Tuesday with no makeup 😴

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32 Upvotes

r/FreeCompliments • • 6d ago

Male Selfie 34 [MALE] Feeling a bit bleh, could do with a slight pick me up

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24 Upvotes

r/FreeCompliments • • 7d ago

Male Selfie [male] Just celebrated my birthday :D

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86 Upvotes

r/FreeCompliments • • 8d ago

Male Selfie Really starting to like the way I look after a year of hard work. 40[male]

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39 Upvotes