r/texts • u/GhostlySkeletons • 18h ago
Facebook DMs Date Gone Wrong - Not Sure How to Feel?
I met a woman on FB dating and we agreed to get mexican food.
I drove over, walked up, and she instantly took offense to my nose piercing. (They are in my profile pictures).
We were both hungry and I offered to still pay for dinner despite her distaste, but she noped out and said she was leaving.
I’m genuinely not sure how to feel. Admittedly, it did hurt my feelings slightly. On the other hand, I’ve also just learned not to care anymore.
Screenshots are of what she had to say after it happened.
I guess I’m just sharing this because I’d like to hear other opinion.
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u/Complete-Ice9013 15h ago
Exactly.. I’m confused on why she felt as if her opinion means so much to go in on YOUR choice of attire and jewelry. Feel absolutely NO WAY ABOUT IT bc it literally doesn’t matter. If you look in the mirror and love what you see not one other person’s opinion matters.
*Do they pay your bills
*Does their opinion mean life or death
I’m assuming the answer is NO to both!!!
Don’t even entertain conversations like that seriously. I agree with a previous comment where she was hoping you’d offer to change for her 🙄 her reaction sounds childish and gives about a 17 maybe 16yo behavior 🤷♀️