Date Gone Wrong - Not Sure How to Feel?

[u/GhostlySkeletons]

I met a woman on FB dating and we agreed to get mexican food.

I drove over, walked up, and she instantly took offense to my nose piercing. (They are in my profile pictures).

We were both hungry and I offered to still pay for dinner despite her distaste, but she noped out and said she was leaving.

I’m genuinely not sure how to feel. Admittedly, it did hurt my feelings slightly. On the other hand, I’ve also just learned not to care anymore.

Screenshots are of what she had to say after it happened.

I guess I’m just sharing this because I’d like to hear other opinion.

[u/hutty442]

She perfectly understands that she shouldn't say this. She's trying to manipulate him

[u/abstr_xn → u/hutty442]

"God I would really like you if you were just different and changed to meet every expectation I have of you, honestly, you're like a child, I really like you and it upsets me that you have a personality, it would be so much more mature of you to change everything about yourself so I can fully like you for who you are"

[u/HippieGrandma1962 → u/abstr_xn]

Do we have the same ex?

[u/abstr_xn → u/HippieGrandma1962]

I would not doubt it.

[u/Nebula_Aware → u/abstr_xn]

Shes disgusting.

[u/Halo_cT → u/hutty442]

i hate to armchair but after reading a million stories in r/raisedbyborderlines this feels a lot like a much younger version of the way those people speak to others.

[u/SnooOwls2623 → u/Halo_cT]

I date a borderline, and that was the first thing that popped into my head.

[u/SharnyaTileiya → u/hutty442]

100% SHE IS!

[u/Consistent-Pop3129 → u/hutty442]

Into what?
She didn’t even take the free meal
She isn’t interested in doing anything with him

But it’s all a multi step plan to mold him into what she wants. She has time for that?

This is rhetorical, I don’t have time for you doubling down to try to make that statement make sense