r/texts • • 18h ago

Facebook DMs Date Gone Wrong - Not Sure How to Feel?

I met a woman on FB dating and we agreed to get mexican food.

I drove over, walked up, and she instantly took offense to my nose piercing. (They are in my profile pictures).

We were both hungry and I offered to still pay for dinner despite her distaste, but she noped out and said she was leaving.

I’m genuinely not sure how to feel. Admittedly, it did hurt my feelings slightly. On the other hand, I’ve also just learned not to care anymore.

Screenshots are of what she had to say after it happened.

I guess I’m just sharing this because I’d like to hear other opinion.

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u/JadedFootball4733 17h ago edited 15h ago

I’m thinking she thought maybe he was going to be like “I’ll change for you!! Tell me exactly what you want me to do.” And was probably shocked when he didn’t bow down.

Eta - someone said they’re both women. My comment still stands. Some women think they are domineering due to whatever, their personality, past experience, but somewhere in life they picked up this Diva attitude where they expect it to go down like this.

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u/Elegant-Drummer1038 14h ago

OPs profile says 31M