r/texts • • 18h ago

Facebook DMs Date Gone Wrong - Not Sure How to Feel?

I met a woman on FB dating and we agreed to get mexican food.

I drove over, walked up, and she instantly took offense to my nose piercing. (They are in my profile pictures).

We were both hungry and I offered to still pay for dinner despite her distaste, but she noped out and said she was leaving.

I’m genuinely not sure how to feel. Admittedly, it did hurt my feelings slightly. On the other hand, I’ve also just learned not to care anymore.

Screenshots are of what she had to say after it happened.

I guess I’m just sharing this because I’d like to hear other opinion.

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u/werisefromourashes 18h ago

So she's looking for somebody fun and spontaneous, but they must be fun and spontaneous within what she wants?
It sounds like one of those women who get with somebody hoping that they'll change into who she really wants.

Run free OP!
Run and enjoy the feeling of not having to put up with a psycho!

https://giphy.com/gifs/3oKIPfTC7Mwf3wv6qQ

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u/dunnwichit 18h ago

Fun and spontaneous and 100% catering to my heavy control at all times.

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u/Fun-Habit-683 18h ago

they must be fun and spontaneous within what she wants?

Yea, that's kind of the idea.