r/texts • • 18h ago

Facebook DMs Date Gone Wrong - Not Sure How to Feel?

I met a woman on FB dating and we agreed to get mexican food.

I drove over, walked up, and she instantly took offense to my nose piercing. (They are in my profile pictures).

We were both hungry and I offered to still pay for dinner despite her distaste, but she noped out and said she was leaving.

I’m genuinely not sure how to feel. Admittedly, it did hurt my feelings slightly. On the other hand, I’ve also just learned not to care anymore.

Screenshots are of what she had to say after it happened.

I guess I’m just sharing this because I’d like to hear other opinion.

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u/WasteNoTime63 18h ago

That girl is not worth you worrying over. She's got some issues to resolve before she dates.

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u/emeryroserulz 17h ago

Right? I have written and re written a comment over and again because she seems so problematic. OP just needs to see this date as a wash and move on. <3

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u/Cheap-Technician-482 14h ago

Right, she's not a match. No need to read any further into it than that.

If you want to read a little further into it anyway, she's not a match, and she's weird/got some issues. Nothing further to read into.

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u/Lunar_Cats 17h ago

This. Don't even give her the satisfaction of saying anything more. Block her and move on. She's wanting you to change your appearance for her and manipulative shallow people like this aren't worth putting up with.

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u/anisedeer 16h ago

Maybe share this post with her as a parting gift? (I kid, but…)

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u/LukeGittins 14h ago

You can already tell she is an onlyPans feminist

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u/anonymousnightshade 16h ago

I mean, at least she knows what she wants— if you dont want to change (you're definitely not obligated too)— they're not your person..