r/texts • • 21h ago

Reddit DMs Why are men?

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Nothing about my profile or anything involving it would ever make it seem like I would be open to a message like this

To all the men saying “at least he asked” I was never asked if I was okay receiving an unsolicited sexual message from a stranger. Asking for consent implies that the person has already expressed some sort of sexual interest in you. Don’t message strangers sex shit. It isn’t some unalienable right to ask women if they want to fuck you. Doing that with no other preamble makes you a creep.

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u/wehavethismoment 21h ago

Sadly just having a female presenting avatar is enough for many... 

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u/fullmoonlune 21h ago

I didn’t think ppl actually noticed that because people always just assume I’m a dude in discussions on this app lol I feel like that’s just the default

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u/wehavethismoment 21h ago

The second it fits them they absolutely notice my avatar lol 

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u/zealentor 20h ago

I just finished to your avatar because I'm a filthy MAN. 😭

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u/Obvious-Burner69420 13h ago

And this is why you’re finishing alone, because nobody wants to touch you.

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u/CrackJacket 18h ago

Do mine next

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u/CrackJacket 18h ago

I did notice a cat in your avatar. Cat tax?

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u/ChickinSammich 18h ago

I exclusively use old Reddit so I don't know what my avatar (or anyone else's) even looks like. I'm guessing I probably have the default generic picture.

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u/DevelopedLiss 17h ago

You don't have an avatar if you haven't made one, you just have the generic faceless pfp

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u/ChickinSammich 17h ago

Gotcha, thanks!

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u/-cuckstradamus- 16h ago

Wow. So "sad". Life must be tough lol