r/talesfromtechsupport • • 27d ago

Short Mom Wonders Why She Has No Google Storage.

I don’t know if this belongs here, but it’s the best I could find.

For MONTHS my mom had been freaking out over the fact that she had no Google storage. Unable to join meets, download stuff, etc.

After another bout of her freaking out about it, I’m like “fine whatever”, I go to check her email. Relatively average? I think? At least for a woman who has had this email for a while. 3k in primary inbox, 3k in social, 5k in updates, etc.

I look down at her promotional folder. Any guesses? Any guesses on how many emails she had in her promotional folder? WELL YOU’RE WRONG!! She had 63k EMAILS!! Sixty three thousand!! Do you realize how absurd that is?

Her justifications were, she “didn’t know there was a “select all” feature”, and that “it took too long”. Yeah man. It takes a while for Google to delete 63,000 emails.

Took me about 40 mins to get everything deleted, but it’s solved now. Oh. My days.

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u/Harry_Smutter 27d ago

Def other stuff taking up that storage. Emails take up such a small amount of it. Biggest culprit I've found is Google Photos backing up videos and huge photos. Check her devices and ensure they're not backing them up at max resolution and check her drive for video files. I haveta go through and do this again myself as I'm running outta storage, haha. Sitting at 81% and Google keeps harassing me 😅

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u/merc08 27d ago

Sitting at 81% and Google keeps harassing me 

That nagging doesn't go away.  I cleaned up my account down to around 60% and still got the "you're almost out of storage!" alerts.  

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u/Spim 27d ago

I got an alert last week that my storage is 25% full. I've been using my account for about 20 years so I guess in another 60 I'll get right on cleaning that up

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u/Plink-plink 21d ago

I hit 60% on my beta account this year 😉

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u/Harry_Smutter 27d ago

It went away for me when I got under 80% last time, haha. We shall see with this one.

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u/5thhorseman_ 26d ago

It'll go away but it's not immediate.

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u/Vektor0 27d ago

All you have to do is click on your space usage and it tells you exactly what's taking up your space. I don't understand wtf OP is doing.

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u/TopicalBuilder 27d ago

I am forever fixing Google drive backup settings for friends and family. At this point I'm starting to think it's a deliberately bad design.

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u/LaramieWall 27d ago

Absolutely. Because then they sell plans for more drive space. 

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u/MrT735 26d ago

If you do have one of their plans though, you can share the storage with family (and you can't see each others files, it's purely the storage allowance that gets shared).

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u/LordTimhotep 27d ago edited 26d ago

This.
I can’t remember if I have ever deleted an email on my gmail account, and I have had it since Google came out with it in 2004. And there’s a lot of chaff going on there, newsletters, promotions and everything.

I haven’t checked the number of emails, but it’s a little over 5GB. Since I don’t use it for a lot of other things, I have ample space left.

Edit:
Have checked now. 64,5K emails. I’m not OP’s mom.

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u/tsullivan815 26d ago

I just checked mine - I have 77,869 UNREAD. If I look at ALL mail, I have 127,196.

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u/HighRelevancy rebooting lusers gets your exec env jailed 27d ago

Yeah. Google seems to periodically readjust what photos they'll back up for "free" and make the other option the default, so you keep ending up with full storage unless you're checking every year or so. And they make it a real pain to find the button that converts all the big photos to the free quality. Pack of bastards.

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u/sandmyth 27d ago edited 27d ago

I just transfer all my photos/videos to a Google pixel 3a over wifi automatically via a daily script. the 3a then diligently backs them up for free.

there are other ways I've seen to make sure your photos and videos don't use up "quota" space on your Google drive, but I figured that keeping an old phone with free uploads was more legit.

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u/NotYourNanny 27d ago

there are other ways I've seen to make sure your photos and videos don't use up "quota" space on your Google drive,

Like not using it? Because you keep actual backups?

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u/merc08 27d ago

Is there even a free quality tier anymore?

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u/HighRelevancy rebooting lusers gets your exec env jailed 27d ago

I think so. If you can find it.

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u/Dm-Me-Your-Grool 26d ago

When gmail first launched with "unlimited" storage and before drive launched, I used to use gmail as file storage. When they merged the storage limits for drive, email, and photos, I had to clean out my emails.

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u/stepharts03 26d ago

I just learned one drive was emailing me “on this day” photo memories. For years!

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u/Stryker_One The poison for Kuzco 26d ago

All them 4K HDR Blu-Ray rips. 😄

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u/ExIsStalkingMe 26d ago

Yeah, I just went and checked how many emails I have in my Invite Only Era Gmail account that I've never deleted anything from. I'm over 80K easy, and my storage for email is around only 5GB. My actual Drive is taking up substantially more space

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u/Hangman_Matt 25d ago

My google drive kept filling up because of photos and videos. I ended up setting up a syncthing storage on my home server. 18.6GB of photos and videos uploaded and stored safely on my own cloud. I have 3.5tb of storage allocated and I plan to expand it

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u/Harry_Smutter 25d ago

Mind giving me a rundown of how you did that?? I have a media server, but not sure how I would back up the media from my phone to it.

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u/Hangman_Matt 25d ago edited 25d ago

Download the syncthing app on your phone, I believe its called syncthing_forked or something on the android app store, then go on the file server and go to syncthing.net. from there its just configuring some settings on both the phone and server

Edit: Its Syncthing-Fork on the android app store

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u/Harry_Smutter 24d ago

Sweet, thanks for the info!! Gonna try that out when I can :)

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u/Sedlium 26d ago

Goggle has been added shadow files to file that storage for nearly a decade!

I deleted all of my photos & videos & it still says 9gs.

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u/jonas_ost 22d ago

I turned off automatic drive storage for my grandma because her drive was full of pictures she already had on the computer. And most of them was not worth saving

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u/Speciesunkn0wn 21d ago

Onedrive is similar. I've had to shut off syncing because it keeps trying to jam my 100+GB desktop into fucking 5GB of one drive storage.

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u/m4lrik 27d ago

I don't understand... that's why exactly the reason for "no storage"? I do have 74,233 mails in my primary gmail address using 31% of the 15GB (well, probably less, I do have other files in that storage as well) - so I still question why exactly she didn't have any more storage...

😅🙈

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u/NotYourNanny 27d ago

Promotional emails (spam) tend to be pretty image heavy. It adds up.

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u/justin-8 27d ago

The images aren't usually in the email they're just embedded links and won't take up space like that

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u/Lacutis 27d ago

Most of them dont embedded the image, its loaded when you view the email so that they can get impression rates (how many people open the email).

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u/NotYourNanny 27d ago

Depends on the spam in question, of course, and attachments, rather than images, are not at all uncommon. Especially if those attachments . . . aren't what they claim to be.

But I'm inclined to agree with others who have speculated that there was more to it, and OP doesn't mention checking Drive, where things like attachments end up, and syncing pictures is usually default.

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u/fresh-dork 26d ago

35k emails, 5gb used.

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u/m4lrik 26d ago

I've actually looked it up - it's 4GB for the 74k for me 🤷‍♂️

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u/Future_Elephant_9294 27d ago

Each email can be as much as 50MB with images inline instead of referencing external. That's a maximum of 3TB in 63,000 emails.

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u/MikeSchwab63 27d ago

Reverse that. 15GB limit / 63K emails averages 238KB per message. Actually lower for the other messages not included, so 200KB.

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u/KeithFromCanadaOlson 27d ago

Oof. How are you going to explain to her that it WASN'T all of those emails you deleted, but all of the videos and pictures that weren't set to 'Storage Saver'?

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u/justin-8 27d ago

Which is now a legacy option. All photo backups count for storage these days.

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u/KeithFromCanadaOlson 27d ago

Huh. Yes and no, then. The cutoff was June 1, 2021. I hadn't realized because I rarely take photos, and most of mine are older than that and, therefore, don't count against my storage.

Good to know!

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u/RexCanisFL 27d ago

Rookie numbers…

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u/CPM10v12 27d ago

Mom needs to pump those numbers up.

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u/Havoc_Rider 27d ago

You can also check storage usage distribution on Google Manage account option. 

Usual culprit is Gdrive or google photos 

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u/amyberr 26d ago

Mine appears to be my phone backup, IDK what to do with that information

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u/Havoc_Rider 26d ago

You can check whats covered in "Phone backup"

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u/a4qbfb 27d ago

63k is not a lot of email, and should not have consumed all her storage.

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u/SmallLetter 26d ago

Yes, 63000 emails at the maximum of 35mb is 2.2GB . And most of them are probably not more than 5.

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u/H_is_for_Human 27d ago

I have 47k promotions, 35k updates, and about 11k unread inbox emails

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u/ThatUsrnameIsAlready 27d ago

11k unread 😱

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u/H_is_for_Human 26d ago

To be fair - I've kept it at 11k unread for the past year, so all those unread ones are increasingly irrelevant.

My work e-mail I keep at inbox 0.

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u/UristImiknorris 26d ago

You don't always need to read an email to know what it's about.

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u/Ich_mag_Kartoffeln 26d ago

I remember returning to work from an extended holiday.

~4,500 emails 😳 waiting for me. Select all, delete.

I needed a cuppa after doing all that work!

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u/FixinThePlanet 27d ago

Like others have said, I wonder if it's something else.

On my old account the entire storage was taken up by my google photos because I was syncing them all. Maybe her photo gallery is full of screenshots and WhatsApp forwards

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u/The_Stoic_One 27d ago

Am I the only motherfucker that deletes emails? I currently have less than 90.

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u/loroller 26d ago

I haven't deleted an email since 2010. I'm on Google's Pro AI plan that gives me 5Tb. I'm at 12% after 16 years, so I think I'll have to start cleaning up my mailbox when I'm about 185 years old.

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u/Metaencabulator 26d ago

That was kind of GMail's whole pitch when it launched, you never have to delete anything and you can find whatever by searching. (Plus labels/tags instead of folders.) I pretty often need or want to find an old email to reference; I'm happy for Google to store it for me and provide the interface to dig stuff up (though with AI "features" it's more stupid now). You do you, I'm not the email police, but it would be weird to me to delete everything. I do archive so my inbox is pretty sparse.

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u/Miles_Saintborough DON'T TOUCH THAT! 26d ago

Confirmed motherfucker here that also deletes his emails. Never let it get past 100.

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u/Shinhan 13d ago

Yes.

I have 606 emails in primary, 204 in Social and 2221 in Updates. Only Updates has unread emails because that's where almost spams goes to (google security alerts, privacy policy updates on websites, steam...).

Best way to handle too much email is to aggressively mark as spam.

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u/Ferro_Giconi 13d ago

I have thousands of unread emails because I don't ever open the delivery notifications or bill notifications or things like that. I get the emails as reminders, swipe the notification away, then leave the email alone after that.

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u/z0phi3l 26d ago

I delete too, no point in keeping emails long term

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u/27Purple 27d ago

Sounds like you've missed the actual source problem: The newsletter subscriptions. On the left (on desktop) there's an expandable menu where you can go to "Manage Subscriptions". Just unsub from everything, or she will come back and complain again in a frw months.

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u/anonymously_ashamed 27d ago

A few jobs ago we had some poorly tuned alerting that generated 500 emails a day, about half with a small .txt attached. Add in other 'good' alerting and a very email-heavy organization and 750 emails per day was rather common. But even at 500, it's 180k/year. I never deleted anything, just tags galore.

After 4 years my email was still only ~30gb.

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u/Metaencabulator 26d ago

You never met my mom. Literal hundreds of emails per week, almost all promo crap (often disguised as newsletters). She'd open stuff in tabs "to read later" and wonder why her laptop ran so slowly (300 tabs will do that). Typically showed a few hundred thousand unread in the inbox. She would spend nearly every waking moment on her laptop, mostly dealing with emails.

She passed away earlier this year and I'm still unsubscribing and marking spam emails to get the influx somewhat manageable (I need to watch for legit stuff I may have missed, autopaid bills etc).

Oh and she was on Google's free tier of storage. Adding my vote to "it's not 63K emails taking up your mom's storage".

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u/JivanP 26d ago

Go to one.google.com. Click "Storage" in the left sidebar. Then you will see what is actually consuming all of the storage.

Most likely, it is videos that have been automatically backed up by the Google Photos app.

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u/LinuxJeb 27d ago

My pops still has ~90k unread emails. I don't know how he does it.

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u/Nezrite 26d ago

I get itchy when I have more than 50 in each of the folders. I cannot fathom thousands - or why to keep them.

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u/jeffrey_f 26d ago

I created a google script to delete any email in the INBOX only that is over 1 year old. It runs monthly.

The first ever run removed about 7500 emails. I think the last count was about 700. It it is steady. and most of the total email count is stuff I moved to other folders.

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u/Draugar90 25d ago

I was 9 years old when the music teacher had all of us kids create our own email address. This was in 1999. I still use this email address and I have never had any issues with lack of storage. I don't have issues with spam email or anything either. I do know that there has been some password leaks through the years, but other than that it seems pretty fine. I do however find it very ammusing and a bit scary that the microsoft logs indicate that there are thousands of failed login attempts every day from different places of the world. But no full inbox :3

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u/samurai77 27d ago

Rookie numbers I got 90K unread in my Yahoo inbox alone.

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u/Arokthis 27d ago

I had a similar problem with my mom. She belonged to a couple of groups that would send out daily,  weekly, AND individual messages.  She was getting ALL of them, plus her "sent" folder was overflowing. Cleaning that up took a while! 

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u/ResolveResident118 26d ago

Those are rookie numbers. They're also not gonna use up much space.

It's more likely to be any emails with large attachments that she's sent or received or any photos/videos she's uploaded. Either way, it's fairly easy to check what's using the space with Google and then either remove or add more space, if needed.

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u/boildkitty 26d ago

Helped a client who had over 175,000 emails. That took a bit. I really with Google would let you select more than 100 at a time.

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u/Bureaucromancer 23d ago

Other thing…

Stop using the web client for this.

Web is fine for day to day email… but that “it took 40 minutes to delete 63k messages” just wouldn’t be a thing if you did it through a desktop client.

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u/Degru I LART in your general direction! 21d ago

I bet getting all that synced through IMAP would take just as long honestly

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u/OneArmedNoodler 26d ago

God I fucking hate email.

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u/fresh-dork 26d ago

Do you realize how absurd that is?

i have about 35k. meh, i pay a bit of money to have more storage

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u/Distribution-Radiant 26d ago

I have nearly 60k showing unread...

I fork out $1.99/mo for the extra space since I'm super lazy, as does my nearly 80 year old mother. We've both had the same (separate) emails for over 15 years...

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u/CarelessAttitude5729 25d ago

not all heroes wear capes.. some will spend the time to sort out their parents inbox! seriously stuff of nightmares right here.. 63K emails?! youre right i wouldnt have guessed that many! i know people can be hoarders but do we really need to be hoarding emails from a few years ago? 40 min well spend, you deserve your weekend now

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u/jenkstom 25d ago

It's absurdly low. I have 346K.

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u/glassFractals 25d ago

That's probably not the problem, I have hundreds of thousands. No problem, still on a free tier. They take virtually no storage each. If it was the emails, she must be getting unusually large emails; most marketing emails use remote image assets for better delivery and analytics tracking.

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u/elpasi 22d ago

Agreed.

My landlady was commenting how she was over 90% of the free storage tier. When I helped look for her, it turned out she had taken multiple 1GB+ videos looking around properties which were being auto-uploaded via Google Photos. More than half the storage was trivially cleaned up in seconds when she said "oh, no, I don't need that any more".

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u/xion1992 27d ago

I currently have 190k unread emails on my inbox for one of my addresses and 78k in another one.

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u/BrittEklandsStuntBum 26d ago

I've had my Gmail since you had to be invited and I have like 3 emails in my primary and that's it. Keeping three thousand unarchived is insane.

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u/DustinTheBold2 27d ago

Before my mom knew how to delete she had 109k. I felt your pain

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u/NorthPainting280 27d ago edited 26d ago

I've had uses explain that they may need the files in the 'deleted folder"

* treated the deleted file folder 'trash' as an additional storage folder 😯

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u/maceion 26d ago

"users explain" ?

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u/MattVarnish 26d ago

Im at 98% full on one account lol

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u/joe_attaboy The Cloud is a fraud. 26d ago

I was always up over 90% on the lousy 15 GB they give you. They I started using Immich as a Google Photos replacement. Now I keep about six months to a year's photos on Google and everything else is gone, available in Immich from my own instance at home. Just eliminating videos in Google Photos can save a load of space.

I also have a private email account that's not GMail and I'm slowly moving specific things over so I can minimize GMail.

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u/Wrong-Boat-4236 26d ago

i have 40k

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u/Cato0014 Experience: Home Network SysAdmin 23d ago

Today I learned Reddit has AI voiceovers like a fucking YouTube short. I fucking HATE AI

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u/2Completion2Ography 16d ago

I tell everyone who, willingly or otherwise, partakes in ai stuff that I hope their death is protracted, painful, and public.

Every single one. Whether it's a yt channel or mom not understanding what words mean.

Use your voice. Don't suffer it in silence.

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u/Miss_Smitten 22d ago

I have over a million unread emails. Literally. I remember my ex freaking when it was in the 800g range. I never delete them lol

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u/cyclops32 27d ago

How can you do a select all with a keyboard? Best I could do was select 100 at a time and delete those before going into trash and deleting the whole lot.

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u/captnkurt 26d ago

If you're looking to bulk delete thousands of emails at once, you need to use a PC. I don't think the mobile GMail app or even accessing GMail through your mobile browser gives you access to bulk actions.

If you're at a PC, there's the "select all" checkbox at the top. Checking it will select just the first 100, BUT it will show an option to Select all conversations that match this search

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u/cyclops32 26d ago

Thanks! I'll try that. Yeah, last time I used a third party email client like thunderbird it made the pc hang like crazy.

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u/Steerider 27d ago

Set up Syncthing and have her image folder back up to a personal computer (maybe yours). Get the photos off Google. 

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u/Slow_Gin_77 25d ago

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