r/questioning • u/Dazzling-Chip8341 • 3d ago
is it important? (F 21)
Ever since the beginning of highschool i’ve known i liked women. it was never something i questioned, except now as a 21 yr old ive started questioning something entirely different.
Do i like men?
I’ve started thinking about having sex with men and it genuinely doesn’t seem terrible to me, i actually think id enjoy it quite a bit. except the barrier to this is im married to a woman.
so i guess my question is, is it important i figure it out or is it something i just need to put to the side? it wont change the love i have for my wife but does it change me as a person in my identity if i would sleep with a man?
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u/EnthusiasmJazzlike46 cis lesbian 16h ago
If you are attracted to men then yeah you would be bisexual.
Referring to your wife as a "barrier" to you having sex with a man is a bit wild though...