r/problemgambling • • Sep 09 '26

❤Seeking help & Advice❤ HELP ME IF YOU CAN

Ok , i don't want to come here again but my bf relpased on gambling again and it was really huge than previous time . I am taking his stake account but he is throwing random tantrums on me .

I need help - He has stake account which has 2 factor authentication isn't working magically ( weird) but i am mailing from his mail id to stake - " please remove the 2FA" and their reply was -

"

To proceed with your request, please send screenshots of the last three transactions made from the external wallet or bank account to the Stake account in question. Please make sure each screenshot is clear, complete, and includes the following details: 1. Date and time of the transactions 2.Recipient wallet address 3.The amount sent

I am not that much technical - he has stake login on his phone but he is far away from me , he said that we need different authentication to send this .\

ON SIMPLER TERMS - They need crypto receipent details and you can't access that with your stake account ? How true is that ? Is he lying again?

Can you send this info with only stake account in your phone or do you need anything else .

ik i am looking so stupid having to ask that , but that person just doesn't want to understand anything.

I am struggling a lot as well , Please be kind in comments and help me

always thankfull to this community and its people

regards,

victim of gamber radius ( kinda funny but sick )

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u/Straight-Scratch7469 Sep 09 '26

yeah i know he still thinks 1 bet would fix things up , there is not any other way to solve things ? I am so desperate to try and it would make things worse i guess , rn i just blackmails him that i would leave you if you continue doing gambling and stuff

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u/Straight-Scratch7469 Sep 09 '26

and how you changed ? what made you realise that bets not gonna fix everything

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u/Straight-Scratch7469 Sep 09 '26

he would never initiate this , never in my opinion . Even if he hits rock bottom - the last thing he has is me . He would never think in that way as far as i know him or if i am wrong it would take approx. 4 to 5 years for him to change that way in very rare circumstances . Somewhere i have accepted that he would never change now but what to do with that information , when i loved this person my whole life . If i would have been given this choice that i have to leave him then he would stop gambling , i would happily do but that's not the case , he would ruin himself more , but again i was just a very lil help as well , a person would do what he wants to do .

SORRY for taking that much time for you and thank you again for providing better insights.

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u/Straight-Scratch7469 Sep 09 '26

one more thing , and thank you for answering me - He has seen the worse from my POV like he has seen many things cuz of gambling , does a person need to hit a bottom rock to leave these things or how ? He fantasize being in casino and gambling idk why , is it just money or something else? I am the type of person which is very detached from money and never gets what going on his brain and how it functions

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u/Straight-Scratch7469 Sep 09 '26

i told him 1000 times but he don't believe that he need therapy for this

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