r/NCSU • u/Reasonable-Phone-837 • 5h ago
Vent If you’re feeling “behind” read this:
idk if this will resonate with anyone but if it does for even one person then i’ve done my job. i graduated high school in 2023 and should’ve been a senior this year, but alas i only just now transferred and still have until 2028. i wanted to be a dentist since i was 14, even worked as a dental assistant, then in my second year at CC i switched to hygiene for two semesters (why i’m a year behind now) i then decided to go back to pre dental and finished out my associates ending up at state in a STEM major. TLDR: i had a serious come to jesus after one of my exams and realized i was completely torturing myself for the past 3 years with all these hard courses just for the label of being a doctor and the social status. my grandparents built their life from the ground up and they’ve always been my inspiration, and to have even half the drive my grandpa does has always been my goal. and now, in what should be my second to last semester of undergrad, i’m switching to business admin (finance) and diving in head first. (which will delay me from spring 2028 to fall 2028, i’m planning to go abroad spring 2028) so yea, if you ever feel like it’s “too late” to change your mind or you’re behind everyone else, just think of me lol.