r/howyoudoin • u/Raj_Valiant3011 • 1h ago
Discussion Hot Take: Despite Ross's problematic characterization and how he handled his relationship with Rachel, Susan's treatment of him was really disrespectful when it came to Carol's pregnancy, in my opinion.
Let me be clear that I'm not against Susan as a character, nor do I condone Ross's jealous and insecure behaviour in the show. However, I feel that Carol was unnecessarily harsh and a bit demeaning when it came to Carol being pregnant with Ben and how Ross was doing his best to feel included in that whole process of being a single father. He was genuinely trying his hardest to find a way to make sure that he does his part as a first-time father while Susan was constantly going out of her way to throw shade at him for no reason and trying to reduce his contributions to this pregnancy situation.
Given the tension between both of them, it felt all the more impactful and emotional when it was Ross of all people who convinced Carol to go through with her wedding to Susan and also had his moment when he danced with Susan after they got married. That being said, I do feel Susan was quite harsh and critical towards Ross in the first season.
Let me know your thoughts and views on this and whether you think this is a fair observation.