r/extremelyinfuriating • • 21h ago

Discussion Public toilette

I wonder why 95% of public restrooms are so disgusting. Is it really that hard to be civilized and show some respect for others? I’m talking about women’s restrooms.

I’m lucky enough to be able to hold it in for ages, so I almost always avoid using them. Yesterday, I was driving back from a wedding that was a three-hour drive away, and after holding it in since 5 a.m. (it was 11 p.m. by then), and having drunk quite a bit, I just couldn’t take it anymore. We stopped at a highway rest stop, but I only had to put one foot inside the restroom before deciding to leave without going, and wait to reach home.

Just needed to vent a little.

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u/precariousIypoised 21h ago

Sadly, many adults need potty training.

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u/SnailsInYourAnus 16h ago

The wedding didn’t have bathrooms? Lmao

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u/No-Kiwi-3663 16h ago

Yep, but I was keen on avoiding them

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u/Dependent-Toe-3359 7h ago

I completely understand the restroom part. Some public bathrooms are absolutely disgusting, and I genuinely don't understand how grown adults can leave a toilet or stall looking the way they sometimes do. 😭

But the part that actually worried me more was you saying you held your pee from around 5 a.m. until 11 p.m. Please don't make a habit of doing that just to avoid public bathrooms. Being able to hold it for a long time doesn't necessarily mean it's harmless — regularly holding urine too long can affect your bladder muscles and can increase the chance of a UTI.

I'd honestly rather carry a little emergency bathroom kit — disinfecting wipes, tissues/toilet paper, hand sanitizer, maybe disposable seat covers — so you can make the least-awful stall usable when you absolutely have to go.

And yes, people seriously need to clean up after themselves. I can understand an occasional mess or an accident, but some of the things people knowingly leave behind for the next person or the cleaning staff are unbelievable. 🤢

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u/Raiju02 6h ago

Are you female? I’m my short janitorial experience women’s bathrooms are way worse than men’s

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u/mindgardening 17h ago

Come to the US where public toilets are considered a luxury and not a necessity. They can often be difficult to find for non-homeless people (buy an item in a store and you're allowed to use the toilet) and they are virtually impossible for homeless people to find, which is why you see piles of human shit in american cities.