r/etiquette • • 13d ago

Charity gala etiquette and outfit

Tldr first time attending a charity gala, no idea what I'm doing.

Hi y'all!

I haven't attended a true formal event since I was in JROTC in highschool, and I attended our military ball...

I was told it would be cocktail attire. I don't have any suitable dresses, but I do have a black velvet jumpsuit that I believe works. I'm going to have to figure out my shoes, but I'm hoping I have appropriate heels.

The company that I work for is a sponsor for this event, which is the only reason I'm going, I was asked to attend along with a few of my co-workers.

Any general etiquette advice would be appreciated, I'll also scroll through the subreddit for info.

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u/game-on-Vamos 12d ago

black velvet jumpsuit… as a seasoned gala-goer, that should work as long as it’s not too revealing. if you have a tailored blazer to wear with it, statement gold or silver earrings , cuff bracelet or bold necklace, even better. don’t forget pumps or strappy heels.
easy on the drinks and mingle and enjoy.