r/cockatiel • • Jan 31 '26

Other New Rule for r/cockatiel

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Hello everyone! I’m announcing a new rule for the subreddit.

It comes as no surprise that many people post injured or bleeding birds as well as feces to ensure the health of their birds or questions.

While these posts are allowed, they are inappropriate to not mark as NSFW. Not everyone is comfortable seeing this sort of content.

So for the comfort of everyone in the subreddit. PLEASE, mark these posts as NSFW.

There will be new tags/flairs for posts like these as well.

From this day forward, those who do not mark these posts as NSFW will receive a warning. Any subsequent posts that are not marked or tagged appropriately may be banned temporarily, and any further posts will result in a permanent ban.

Please be respectful of others, and make sure to review the rules before posting content that may violate the rules of the subreddit.

Thank you so much for all the lovely content and being overall a beautiful community. 💖


r/cockatiel • • Dec 14 '21

Frequently Posted (+ Answers)

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We have been getting a lot more repetitive posts in our sub so I wanted to put this information together in the hopes of reducing the amount of questions that are frequently asked. In turn, hopefully this will make our community a little more light hearted :)

*I want to preface this by saying I am not a vet or anything just someone who really loves my cockatiel and learning everything I can to ensure he has the best life possible. I think the best thing you can do for your birdie is lots of research before anything happens (especially in the case of illness). They are fragile so having the right knowledge and tools at your disposal can quite literally be the difference between life and death.

Lets begin!

Is my bird sick?

Common signs of a sick bird include:

  • Tail bobbing, sitting at the bottom of the cage, inability to stand on a perch (loss of balance)
  • Sneezing, clicking respiration (cough), or any discharge coming from the eyes or nostrils.
  • Eyes dull or sunken.
  • Change in vocals (can be hormonal but after puberty could be cause for concern)
  • Change in appetite (loss or increase of food or water)
  • Change in droppings (color, consistency, or frequency - this could be due to diet like eating more fruits and vegetables but it should not last more than a day or two after)
  • Constantly fluffed (happens for a number of reasons like keeping warm, preening, sleeping but they should not always be like this)
  • Feather loss (not related to a regular molt that happens 1-2x per year)
  • Trembling (can mean they are cold, stressed, or sick)
  • Drooping wings

If you notice any of these signs or a combination of them its crucial to get your bird to a vet (preferably an avian one) as soon as possible. No one on the internet is able to diagnose your bird or give it the treatment it needs.

Note: Some of these symptoms like change in droppings, being fluffed up, and feather loss can be normal but if it is persistent the best thing to do is ere on the side of caution and get them checked out.

Is my cockatiel male or female?

Color Patterns: Baby cockatiels that have not gone through their first adult molt (usually between 6-12 months) will typically have female colorations regardless of gender. After their first molt, males tend to get more vivid colors, lose the stripes on the underside of their tail and spots on the wings, The opposite is true for females and their color changes minimally after their first molt.

Different mutations make it more difficult to tell the difference between males and females even after their adult molt.

Behaviors: Males tend to be more vocal (mimicking sounds and singing), heart wings (see example), more likely to "show off" (strutting, hopping, tapping on surfaces), and attempting to mate with objects. Females are often less vocal (although some are) and when wanting to mate will tilt her head, flatten her back, and rock back and forth while chirping softly.

All of the above are good indicators if you have a male or female HOWEVER the only true way to know is if you get a DNA test or if your cockatiel lays an egg. People have noted that their DNA sexed female has shown male behaviors or colors and vise versa. No one can tell you for sure by looking at it!

What is this noise my cockatiel is making?

Some common cockatiel noises and what they mean:

Contact Call: Cockatiels like to keep track of their flock members so when you leave the room you may notice your cockatiel yell for you with a loud chirp or series of chirps. Even if you aren't bonded to your bird they may still do this. Put them at ease by "answering" them from where you are. I like to whistle back the same "contact call" so they know that I will be right back.

Contact Call Example

Attention Scream: Often a loud high pitched screech that is meant to get your attention. They can do this when they are scared, lonely, bored, or even to alert you of something (like a potential predator). Excessive screaming means you might need to change something in their environment. A common cause of this is hormones and boredom, both of which can be decreased by adding more enrichment to their environment with foraging, toys, and training.

Attention Scream Example

Whistling//Mimicking/Chattering: Usually (but not always) done by males and often means they are happy and connecting with you as part of their flock. They may mimic you, the radio, the tv, or even just sounds that they hear outside or inside the house. A lot of the time cockatiels learn these sounds through repetition. Search cockatiel training songs if you don't want to be whistling a song all the time and with time they may pick up on the tunes.

Whistling Example

Beak Grinding: They do this when they are happy and content. Usually it is accompanied by being fluffed up and being sleepy. The cheeks will fluff up as well and the cockatiel will look very relaxed. This is a great sign that your cockatiel is comfortable in their environment.

Beak Grinding Example

Hissing: Like other animals cockatiels do this when they are angry or threatened. This is often a warning to back off and can be accompanied by biting if the behavior is not stopped. If your cockatiel is hissing at you its best to leave them alone for a bit - just like us, our birds have boundaries we should respect!

Hissing Example

Baby Noises: These sound a bit like static and usually do this if they want something (often food, water, or even just attention). This is completely normal for young cockatiels and after a few months will go away. Mine went away at 4 months but this can vary!

Baby Noises Example

What is this behavior?

These are some behaviors that are normal with cockatiels that I noticed are commonly asked about here:

Mating: This is probably the most common one. Males and females display different mating behaviors.

Males will typically rub their cloaca (this is the opening underneath the base of the tail for a birds digestive, urinary, and reproductive tracts) on an object like a toy, your foot or hand, a pillow, ect or a bonded female. Male Mating Behavior

Females will droop their wings and raise their rump while swaying and chirping quietly. You may notice your female also rubbing its back on their toys to try and stimulate themselves. Female Mating Behavior

In addition to these mating behaviors, take note if your bird is territorial, screaming, plucking itself, or aggressive. These could all be signs that your bird is sexually frustrated.

This handout I received from my vet gives some behavioral modification you can make to try and reduce these.

Clearing Crop: Looks a lot like yawning but usually they will do it consistently over a short period of time. Their crop is located below their beak in the neck area. The crop stores food before it is sent to their stomach and acts as a "reserve" so they are able to eat more in one feeding. When they clear the crop they are moving that food to the next stage of digestion. Cockatiel Clearing Crop

How do I tame my cockatiel?

If your bird is brand new to your home, the best thing to do for a day or two is let them soak in their new envionrment. This can be a stressful time for them so its important to let them learn that their new home is a safe space. Talking in a quiet voice and even whistling around them is the best thing to do during this transitiion period. It can be tempting but don't try and pick them up or pet them right away. They may be fearful of hands and scaring them could further your progress of taming them. Whether they are a young cockatiel or an older adult that was rescued or rehomed, taming them will take patience and time. How long can vary on a lot of different factors but it's important not to rush it. Read the links below to get more information on how to achieve this:

Taming step-by-step

I am thinking of getting a cockatiel and would love some tips!

There is really too much to cover in one post so I will address the most common tips for new owners and provide some links that go into detail about all things cockatiel.

Vet Access: This should be the most important thing to consider. Making note of an avian vet that is close by is crucial. Be extra prepared and make note of the closest emergency vet as well that you can go to outside of your regular vets hours. If you do not have one close by or you do not have the money to pay for one, please reconsider getting a bird. It is disheartening to see very obviously sick bird where the owner has no access or money to go to a vet.

Basic Needs: Before purchasing supplies for your bird, do as much research as you can regarding cage size, toys, and food.

Health: Take note of the signs of a sick bird and when to take them to a vet. In addition, cockatiels are sensitive to strong smells, gasses, drafts, and smoke. This also requires some research as there are common household items that can poison and kill your bird (for example teflon pans and some plants you may have lying around).

Links:

Cockatiel Cottage

VCA - Cockatiel Diet

Safe and Toxic Foods

Proper Caging

Introducing New Food to Picky Birds

Training

Taming, potty training, and more

I hope this helps some people learn more about their cockatiels! Of course this is not exhaustive and there is always more information to be learned. Please let me know if I should add anything or if I got any information wrong :)


r/cockatiel • • 10h ago

Troublemaker THIS GUY STINKS

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he smells like Popeyes biscuit after it's been in a box with the chicken ugh it's giving me a headache fr stinky man


r/cockatiel • • 3h ago

Cuteness Overload Bird cuddles!?

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Only you guys will understand!

This is my first bird, Avocado, and I had no idea it was even possible for a bird to be cuddly. This guy chose us when we met him, and he has been extraordinarily friendly and cuddly from day one. We’ve only had him about 2 1/2 months.

Every day, I must sit down and take the time to give this little guy pets and cuddles under my chin so that he can really tuck in. Sometimes he gets on my chest directly on top of my heart and cuddles in for his pets.

I always feel like it’s something really special. Maybe most birds are like this, but he makes me feel special to have a bird like him.

And no one gets it! I’m so thrilled with him but no one quite gets it like this community ❤️


r/cockatiel • • 5h ago

Cuteness Overload A sleeping birb

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r/cockatiel • • 1h ago

Funny Update on Coconut Shrimp... he likes sitting on my head.

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r/cockatiel • • 6h ago

Other my cockatiel really likes feet

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i have no idea what he finds so appealing about feet. he just makes this funny noise when he sees feet, and he also likes to bang his beak against my feet/toes. does anybody else’s tiel do this?? 😭


r/cockatiel • • 11h ago

Troublemaker Spent a hour trying to find him…

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132 Upvotes

I could hear him saying hi biggie ( his name) and chirping but I could not find him.

He was in my videos and game stack


r/cockatiel • • 18h ago

Funny Hat

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(ignore the poop paper :D)


r/cockatiel • • 50m ago

Cuteness Overload Chilling

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Just some of my birds chilling with me, being cute


r/cockatiel • • 13h ago

Crafts Made a keychain of Raffie!

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I saw a cockatiel keychain, but the shipping costs were pretty high, so I decided to try and make one with clay! Found a few crafty things lying around and luckily they had her name (well technically no "I" but made one myself from the letter L) + picture of Raffie


r/cockatiel • • 8h ago

Funny chew cam.

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r/cockatiel • • 12h ago

Advice Redirecting Behaviors

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Hi! So I adopted two cockatiels a few months ago and they’ve been great, just rambunctious. I haven’t had a juvenile for a long time as my bird of 23 years passed way earlier this year.

Anyway, I’m trying to redirect some behaviors that occur on a daily basis and are big sources of overstimulation for me. I don’t get mad or angry with them, just frustrated. But one of my tiels, Artemis, will climb across or up the side of my face using my glasses. I try to move my head anytime he grabs my glasses because I know that’s what he’s gonna do. I don’t always win though.

My other boy, Apollo, will preen me but does it quite hard and his favorite spots are my forehead, chin and a very specific mole on my arm 😭

Honestly, they both preen rather roughly 🥲

Anyway, I’m just not sure how to redirect these behaviors.


r/cockatiel • • 10h ago

Cuteness Overload Working on introductions! Lennon and Bowie ❤️

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r/cockatiel • • 19h ago

Advice Does he like the pats? He’s not running away but he’s also like whistling at me to back off but also looks like he likes it

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He is like 10 weeks old so maybe he doesn’t understand what I’m doing?


r/cockatiel • • 16h ago

Funny It’s pumpkin season! 🎃

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Happy thanksgiving to my fellow Canadians 🧡


r/cockatiel • • 14h ago

Cuteness Overload Friends 😍😍😍

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My new birds are finally starting to bond! Pucky (tiel) has started trying to preen Dipper (conure) and it’s so sweet 🥹 (Altho she’s also the bully when she’s decided she needs her space, yellin at poor Dippy 🤣)


r/cockatiel • • 6h ago

Cuteness Overload My baby boy is finding his voice!

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Newest baby is already finding his voice at 2 months and his absolute favorite noise is the one at the end that he repeats nonstop. I love him lol


r/cockatiel • • 8h ago

Funny Oh lawd he comin’

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r/cockatiel • • 13h ago

Troublemaker 0 thoughts between those eyes

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r/cockatiel • • 10h ago

Funny This is Strips…

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Strips is being inappropriately being flirted by (from left to right) by her half-brother, nephew, and father.


r/cockatiel • • 19h ago

Troublemaker Cheeky lil thing munched my spiderplant

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r/cockatiel • • 6h ago

Advice Toy and Food Recommendations?

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Hi. Pictured first is the new baby I am getting soon (no name yet), and the second pic is my baby I just lost (Mochi). Please recommend any toys and food your tiels like. I only had Mochi for a week before he passed and he wasn’t fond of toys yet. I just want recs for good quality toys that keep them enriched and entertained!


r/cockatiel • • 20h ago

Funny My guard dog is better than yours

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Anyone else here have a cockatiel that tries to emulate a dog's bark? Lemme see it please ☺️