r/breakingbad • u/Boring_Elevator3817 • 9h ago

RJ Mitte (Walt Jr) has passed 😥

Wow, I was shocked to hear this. They are saying it was suicide. So sad. He was only 34 years old. RIP, Flynn ❤️

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u/Klutzy_Garlic_4421 9h ago

Please seek professional help, you are loved and not alone. I mean this wholly and truly.

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u/blonde_taurus 9h ago

damn i didn’t think anyone would see my comment. this means so much to me

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u/MathsNerd1996 8h ago

Get a therapist ASAP, anyone can get out of their situation. You have loads of options you don't realise existed to you.

You have my full support. If you need help, it's available.

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u/wimbokcfa 5h ago

What if I’ve tried all the options? All the meds? And the PTSD and depression just always come back?

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u/104925iveRo2es5322 17m ago edited 1m ago

Although a lot of people hope mental health can be "fully fixed", the reality unfortunately remains that depression (or other issues) will never fully go away. It will always remain a part of your life. This sounds worse than it really is, but I like to mention it to hopefully shift your, or someone else's expectations for the better.

Better how? Well, both me and a lot of people I surrounded myself with entered therapy with a similar mindset. Once the depression creeped back in and kicked me back down, it made me feel more like a failure for not being able to "get cured" from it. Once I knew it would always be some part of me, it oddly lifted a certain weight off my shoulder and altered my expectations for the better, and it gave me different outlook to other people suffering of the same faith as well. It is not us "suffering" versus the ones who "got cured", we are all in this together with a wide-varying degree of the symptoms, with still a much better outlook waiting for us.

Therapy and medicine allow you/us to process these mega-complicated emotions and situations, and help you develop healthier copings mechanisms to tackle these situations once they arise again. The pain you'll feel in a couple months won't be the same as the pain you feel now.

Don't give up.

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u/toodleoo57 12m ago

It's true. And the really important thing to remember is, Depression is a lying hoe. It'll tell you all sorts of crap that you only realize is crap after you start feeling better.

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u/MathsNerd1996 4h ago

change your life, completely

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u/wimbokcfa 4h ago

I’m out of time and money

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u/dunkinbagels 3h ago

You’re not alone and you never will be. Don’t give up

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u/Whole-Map-3706 41m ago

EMDR, it’s life changing.

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u/jacobo Waltenberg 6h ago

we see your comment, and i am rooting for you. You are our internet amigo. :)

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u/TheTrekker98 6h ago

DMs open if you ever wanna talk / vent about anyth 🫂♥️

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u/Vigilante174 1h ago

Echoing this. Reach out for anything, I mean anything. Even if it's to vent about how the grocery store rearranged things and threw off your balance for the day. Nothing is too small. Reach out. Here anytime to respond. 🖤

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u/r0ckchalk 6h ago

In the end, it will all be okay. If it’s not okay, it’s not the end!

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u/EstablishmentNo5013 3h ago

You’re not alone.

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u/MLMkfb 1h ago

You are loved. We are here showing you that people care! Please let someone know what’s going on. Get help! We would miss you!

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u/Open_Gazelle6348 5h ago

It’s not that easy. Some of us aren’t able to get insurance and some of us already know exactly what’s wrong. A therapist and meds can only do so much. They can’t change the other people and/or situations that are driving these emotions.

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u/MainLimp4695 5h ago

Exactly. Some people have explored all conventional options and are told they have some sort of obligation to “stick it out”.

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u/Zylpherenuis 2h ago

You say that then people using these programs are loaded into a A.I Algorithm in which patient data is fed and sold into data to nearby brokers on information you give unto them.

Anything you say will not be private. Ever. It will be sold and it will be used to trained Artificial intelligence on how to make a mentally unwell compliant once more giving them a false sense of calm onto them with false scenarios that they have once again control of their livelihood.

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u/The_Three_Meow-igos 11m ago

I second this. I may not know you, but I’m sure the world would miss out on something beautiful if you weren’t in it.

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u/FutureUse5633 9h ago

You try and get professional help and its bad

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u/prochoicesistermish 8h ago

It can be, it can also be great. It’s brave to try. I’m not trying to discount your experience, I’ve had some that were lacking too, but I don’t want others to be discouraged from trying.

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u/eatmorepies23 8h ago edited 7h ago

It helps a lot of people...and if it didn't help you, perhaps you just didn't get the right therapist or meds for you.

If anyone's having these thoughts and is stuck...please keep searching for help.

Edit: a lot of hotlines are available here.

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u/toodleoo57 9m ago

Yeah. When I was really in the worst of my depression, with SI all the damn time I put off getting a therapist bc I assumed nobody would be able to help me and I'd have to keep interviewing people which would take forever, and I didn't have the energy.

I finally got so desperate I called the first therapist I found out of the phone book, I loved her, she's helped a ton. Especially with some of my really warped family dynamic which I didn't even realize was warped in the way she's helped me see.