What's the best sensual gay porn you’ve ever seen? Drop the links or describe how it was.

I think that chubby men are the cutest and most attractive men in the world. Not only are their bellies and chests and arms so soft and squishy, but they also appear so cuddly and sweet like teddy bears. Everytime I see a chubby man in public, I imagine what it would be like to hug and make out with him forever. Just because of how hot they are hehe *gulp* I also think that while big dicked twinks are obviously fucking sexy (who would deny that??), hung chubby people (or even smaller dicked individuals) are not as appreciated as they should be in the gay community. Are y'all attracted to big hunky twunk bears? What do we think? Please give me your opinion on this. I will always believe chubby men are hotter than Death Valley's Furnace Creek air (the highest recorded temperature (56.7°C) in human history.) Just thinking about the twunky wunkies makes me want to hug my pillow.

I am 23. I had been dating a woman and never had the opportunity to go with guys but we did break up about 4 months ago.

My friend, 25, is gay and we agreed to fuck. No strings. He came over to my place. We had some wine and watched something on Prime to settle my nerves. I actually think he was more nervous than me.

Then we went to my room. We had seen each other naked from gym etc so no surprises.

He sucked really well. And I was leaking like crazy. I did not suck him because small steps. I rimmed (lovvved it) and then fucked.

His ass felt great but it took me ages to cum, much longer than I would normally last. Like weirdly long probably. Eventually I did cum. We cleaned up. We watched the end of the show in bed. He mocked me because he said I fucked him like a woman. I dont know what that means.

I apparently fell asleep and he did not wake me. Next morning I woke up and I was sleeping on top of him, almost as if I was protecting him from falling rubble or something. He dud laugh it off.

That was last night. I cannot stop thinking about it and feeling embarrassed by it, specifically fucking him like a woman and sleeping over him. Maybe I am in my head but I made a fool of myself. Dreading going to the gym tomorrow with him.

Scale of 1-10 how weird is it?

Got one from my sisters bf who I dated for some time after they broke up

Last night, I met a guy I've been talking to on Grindr for the past couple of weeks. We had a wild night at the club. I mean shots after shots after shots along with a lot of bumping & grinding lol. Anyway, so we decided to catch a Lyft to this motel we were going to stay at for the night and on the way there, this dude pees in his pants. He told me the ride was taking too long and he was about to explode. Left me with over $70 to pay for urine damage. He claims he will pay me back. Hopefully, he keeps his word on that though I somehow doubt he will. Oh how guys on Grindr never fail to amuse me lol

This past weekend, a friend brought his straight friend to the local gay bar, he's a very handsome military type. He was telling us that he doesn't like to come here very much because he always gets hit on aggressively, as in they keep trying him even after he's turned them down. He only comes out because he wants to hang out with his friend and because the drinks are cheap at this bar.

Not even 5 minutes later, this little blonde twink is hitting on him. He tells him no thanks. This bottom will not take no for an answer and continues going on about how asshole is tighter than vagina, and how men are just better, just let him show him blah blah blah. This man was so fucking uncomfortable, it actually made me sick. So we tell the guy to stop and leave him alone, and I kid you not, this sparks a whole debate, which is why I'm making this post.

On one side, some guys were saying you shouldn't be harassing guys if they don't want to sleep with you. No is no, and you shouldn't assume you can just go up to anyone at a gay bar and start touching them, especially if you don't know them.

On the other side, some guys were saying this behavior is normal and should be expected in gay spaces, and if you're a straight guy you should just be ok with that because you're in a gay space, it's our space, our rules basically.

I'm curious what you think.

I just don’t get it. Every time I turn around I hear about a gay man who cheated on his partner, left his partner who got cancer, never got into a relationship because he thinks hookups are way better, etc. Trying to date is damn near impossible because everyone is so sex obsessed. It just seems like the good stories are soooooo much more rare. Like 5:1.

LA gay here and a lot of my friends are hitting 30 and reevaluating what they want next from life for various reasons (as am I). (Some are ready to settle down / some bc life is unaffordable everywhere rn but especially in the giant cities / LA is in a weird era right now as the entertainment industry struggles / etcetera.)

Curious if there are any gay guys on here who have moved away from giant gay cities like LA and NYC / how did it go? I feel like gays who are lucky enough to live in the giant gay cities (nyc, LA, etcetera) get programmed to think it’s impossible to have a big gay life anywhere else. In reality though, I feel like gays I know in medium sized cities like Denver or even Minneapolis or other places are sometimes happier LOL.

Anywho, let me know if you have any thoughts / advice / etcetera

Even though we are born in different countries, belong to different cultures, speak different languages, wear different clothes, have different skin colors, and hold different beliefs (or none at all), we share a common bond that unites us all: our sexuality. It is a magnificent feeling to strive for the same goal, to support one another without even knowing each other, and to feel a connection across the globe. Even if certain "conservative" mindsets are bothered by it, we are all part of the LGBTQ+ community. I love that we are as peaceful, freedom-loving, and progressive as we are—and just as horny :) I am so lucky to be gay. If I were heterosexual, this world would be incredibly boring and terrible. If homosexuality were a choice, I would choose it every time. I just wanted to say that. I love you all.

So im 23yo no car no license no money can't find work i live in northern US

Im 5'8 skinny built like a twink I have green eyes dirty blonde hair more like black hair lol

Can someone in my position lose their v card

Yes I know if I had the other things it would be much easier but im Just curious

So I'm 23M and single and I just wanted to ask if watching porn almost every time you masturbate is bad or at least to help finish.

I am lil nerdy gay and just want to meet another who is just a chill „normal“ guy except he likes to get docked down hard and then go for a coffee or a walk in the rain.

Why are gays almost always heavily tattooed, piercings everywhere, with such an attitude. You’re a guy. Just like chilll mannnnnnnnn. Don’t test me wrong, I have been attracted to all sorts of people but I find I cannot stand „bitch, bottom energy“ and just want to hang with a calm dude who is emotionally mature and just well, a dude.

On apps, I can’t find him. In clubs, he isn’t there. In the supermarket you bet your sweet as I am not taking that risk. And I live in Berlin, probably the gayest city in the world and it’s so hard to just find a decent boring normal guy!

What the actual fuck?

With AI showing that you can reverse engineer Adobe’s suite and even video games I couldn’t help but think it’s time to pirate a version of Grindr and sell for free (or almost free)? I’ve always found grindr’s price gouging despicable. Curious what others here think? Would you switch to the pirate version?

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I'm 18 now, and this is something I've been struggling to understand about myself for a while. I'll spare you the exact details of what happened because I'm not really comfortable sharing everything publicly, but when I was 14, I was sexually assaulted.

It affected me more than I think I let myself acknowledge at the time. The thing is, my feelings about it have become complicated in ways I don't really know how to explain to anyone.

Sometimes, when I read stories about men being sexually assaulted or raped, particularly when they describe having physical reactions or feeling conflicted about the experience, I get this strange sensation throughout my body. Almost like an electric shock. Sometimes I feel aroused, and I honestly don't understand why?

I've also caught myself wishing someone would do those things to me, which makes me feel incredibly confused. I don't know whether it's connected to what happened when I was younger, whether I've developed some kind of association with it, or whether I'm overthinking my own reactions.

The part that bothers me most is that I feel disgusted with myself sometimes. I keep thinking that because I was assaulted, I should have only negative feelings about anything remotely connected to it. But apparently, human feelings aren't that straightforward, and I don't know what to make of mine.

I know that a physical reaction doesn't mean someone consented to being assaulted. I understand that intellectually.

But understanding something in theory and actually making peace with your own experiences are two very different things.

I haven't really spoken to anyone about this, partly because I'm embarrassed and partly because I'm worried people will misunderstand what I'm trying to say. I'm not trying to romanticize assault or suggest that what happened to me was okay. I'm just trying to understand why I feel the way I do.

But I feel disgusted and I wanted to vent..

I hate u. That is all

Can you see it in their eyes? Do they let you know directly? Do they get a little blush across their cheeks?

I (27) have what’s gotten to be a ridiculous breeding kink. I’ve always been strictly a bottom and part of why I haven’t tried switching is cuz I simply cannot find any desire to do anything other than get bred. The problem is that while lots of guys will cum inside, I think the use of the term “breeding” might be a little overused. The part that gets me off is the dynamic of it, some of the roleplay involved, and just the general number of guys who want to pull out, cum on the hole, and push it back in thinking that’s the same. And sure to some it counts, but I need the animalistic balls deep type breeding and just cannot find anyone that fucks that way (even from the “dom top breeders” o! sniffies). There are times I kinda wish the kink would go away so I could enjoy the less breeding focused sex more but it’s just so so so hot.

well im talking to this dude and its only been 1 month and he already ask for sex even tho we aren’t in a relationship yet

EDIT: It seems like everyone keeps saying its normal, its just that this will be my first time and yes i like him.

Literally the title ill go first I was 16 and my partner was 19 we met through a mutual friend and got together the same night and i pushed for us to have sex at the end of our first week of being together

Btw I’m Hispanic myself and I’m asking cause I’m curious what people in our community feel and like about us and what makes us attractive too? Kink and/or fetishizing us don’t and won’t count.

Btw im chubby, 5’6, and a bottom, I’m also into white, and black guys and other Hispanic/latino guys

Have you gotten someone to show up at your work place to give you a blowjob? What's the most interesting blowjob you've gotten at work?

Guys, enough already. I keep seeing posts that are variations on the theme:

“I want to be barebacked by a dozen strangers in a sex club. How do I do that without catching an STI?”

At the heart of all of these questions seems to be an assumption that STIs go to those who “deserve” them, or people with STIs (especially HIV) are “dirty”. An STI is no “dirtier” than having a cold. And my positive friends are definitely not “dirty”.

Risk is a dial not a switch. If you want to avoid STIs, avoid sex. But if you want to have fun, educate yourself. Get to know your local sexual health services. Get prep and doxy where appropriate. Test regularly. An “all clear” screening result is not 100% foolproof. Find your comfort level and play at that level of safety.

But please… when you so questions like these, you come across as not emotionally mature enough for sex.

I work at construction and one of my coworkers I sucked off he was training me when I started and was acting so confident then we started working together then we were friends one night we had dinner and he told me him and his girlfriend broke up I always had a thing for him I just didn’t want to make my move cuz he was straight but then we were on a work trip in Atlanta we had a hotel he knocked on my door and we hunged out for a bit we were talking and then I see him acting weird and he holds my hand and starts to get a boner then I was like what??? And he started laughing and I pulled his pants down and we just started sucking eachother