r/Millennials • • 9h ago

Discussion Are you tired yet?

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u/MusicMeetsMadness 8h ago

I’ve been working since I was 14. Do you know anyone with 20 years experience before 40?

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u/Special-Tangelo-9927 8h ago

If we count babysitting, I've been working since 12 or 13. Got my first "real" job once it was legal at 16. Then I worked 40 hours a week to put myself through college while double majoring. I'm 35 now and the one month I took off for my honeymoon is the most time I've had off from work since I was a teenager. I'm feeling rough.

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u/TheOnlyOtherGuy88 5h ago

Me too. 13 had a paper route. At 15 started at BK.

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u/SucksTryAgain 6h ago

One year I saved up all my time off. I worked a shift job where I got a week straight off a month and mostly week days off so I never had to take off for doctor appointments etc. I took a whole month off at the end of the work year and man it was glorious. My wife worked. I just did whatever I felt like doing that day. 10am I’d be like I’m gonna watch a horror movie and have a beer. Take a guitar playing session break. Have a day I feel motivated and fix up stuff around the house. I cannot wait for retirement.

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u/Special-Tangelo-9927 5h ago

That sounds so lovely. Good for you! Taking a month off for our honeymoon was amazing, but I'd also like to just have a month off at home to do everything you just described.

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u/Long_Top9384 3h ago

It really is glorious and it’s a shame we have to wait till 65 ans up just to enjoy our lives.
During the pandemic I worked as a travel RN. The pay was pretty great at the time so I would work 12-week contract and then take an entire month off. I’d sleep, go to yoga, sometimes travel, sometimes do nothing and just decompress. I had the best time of my life and I miss it every day.
Now I’m chronically ill and can’t tolerate bedside nursing anymore, but I would trade what I’m doing now in a heartbeat (if I was able) just go back to that schedule.

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u/Fabulous_Celery_1817 Millennial 3h ago

I was so close to quitting my job, then I was furloughed during the beginning of covid. I was scheduled a month ahead so my weekly check dropped in. I didn’t work for 3 months, stayed at my families farm (no animals or cops at the time) It was spring, I just walked around the property, deep cleaned the house, went on drives around the empty streets. It was glorious for me. I still think of those 3 months fondly. I bounced back, and unfortunately I am still at that job. Just with a better boss.

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u/Long_Top9384 5h ago

Highly recommend an FMLA sabbatical. Best thing I ever did.

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u/Special-Tangelo-9927 5h ago

I have considered taking a sabbatical at some point - I desperately want a break. Glad to hear it was worth it for you!

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u/Lanky-Dildo-94 8h ago

And if we count paper route, I’ve been working since I was 12.

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u/Slumunistmanifisto 8h ago

My grandma had a farm... I was shoveling and milking before my memories 

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u/TacoNomad 7h ago

Oh shit, I didn't count paper route.  Count me in at 8 or 9.

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u/ItzScience 2h ago

What do you do that’s making you feel rough?

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u/HoodieStringTies 8h ago

Started at 14 as well and am 40. Quit my job 6 weeks ago. Why? I just really didn't wanna fucking be there anymore. No idea what I'm doing.

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u/KnowledgeMediocre404 5h ago

Maybe this is a vibe? Its almost like getting the ick with your employer and I just can't do such demanding work when I now give 0 fucks. Quit my job of 6 years at 37, been in this biotech career for 15 years and I'm just over it.

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u/MusicMeetsMadness 8h ago

Godspeed. You deserve better.

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u/Oldnbold22 2h ago

A lot of my boomer colleagues have over 40 years of experience at 60. Same role, same, company, 40+ years. I can't imagine. 

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u/Automatic-writer9170 8h ago

Since 15 here. More than 20 years of experience in bullshittery

Edit: remember when they did to us what they are doing to gen z now saying our generation was lazy and people don’t want to work?

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u/KnowledgeMediocre404 5h ago

Right?!? I worked 2 jobs IN UNIVERSITY. This was also 2008 when money actually paid for things.

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u/arrrrrffffff 3h ago

Only 2!? I needed 3 just to not even be able to afford gas to get to them!

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u/KnowledgeMediocre404 2h ago

One was doing laundry at a hospital for $16 an hour which was a small fortune next to $7 min wage.

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u/No_Can_7713 3h ago

Man, I was making $21 an hour in 06 at a summer job. I paid cash for my college tuition I made so much that summer. 2 years later after I graduated, I was making $32. I felt like I was absolutely loaded.

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u/yogrark 8h ago

I had 25 at 40 and still poor. *sigh*

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u/MyNameIsJakeBerenson 8h ago

Most everyone that started working out of high school

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u/lucidspoon 8h ago

My wife started at 14 at a French restaurant where she got paid under the table. At this point, she's been working for 28 years.

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u/Melodic-Trouble-5421 1991 8h ago

I’ve been working since I was 12

Pizza Place (12-15)

Kroger/Laborers Union(Summer) (16-17)

U.S. Army 2 Combat deployments (17-22)

Roofers Union (22)

Non-Union Electrician Apprentice (23-24)

IBEW Union Electrician Apprentice (25-30)

IBEW Union Journeyman Electrician (30-35)

Really the IBEW is all in one (25-35)

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u/Legitimate-Talk9558 8h ago

Same. First job just a few days after turning 15. We tired fam. I’m 37 now

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u/Hickspy 7h ago

I started at 14 too and it got me maybe 1 semester's worth of college.

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u/onusofstrife 6h ago

Started at 15.

I lucked out as my first job was in IT. Still in IT at year 19 here at 34 years old.

Yikes 😳

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u/HeyThanksIdiot 8h ago

I rode the school bus to work at age 14. I was getting $10hr when min wage was like $5.15 in my area.

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u/Tight_Man 8h ago

I dropped out of the 6th grade to work in a warehouse but didn’t start again until 18, stopped from 20-23 to finish my engineering degree. Was homeless in the middle of that so definitely some confounding factors 

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u/caligirl0889 8h ago

same... same

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u/Marmatus Neonatal Millennial ('95) 8h ago edited 8h ago

I started working part time at my family's business when I was still in elementary school. I think my first time working full time was the summer of '09, between school years.

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u/Global_Staff_3135 Xennial 7h ago

15 for me… how’d you swing 14?

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u/H_Industries 7h ago

Well of course I know him... He's me.

Edit, 14 as well, unless we count fundraisers (selling Christmas trees and popcorn for scouts or school stuff) then its way younger, but 14 was my first W2 job.

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u/theandroid01 7h ago

Same. Had an "internship" at a local theater as a stagehand at 14, then my first paying job at a grocery store at 15. Mix between full time and part time. The latter especially when in school

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u/FionnaAndCake 7h ago

started my first real job the day after i turned 14 while still in junior high. 😮‍💨

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u/TruculentBadger 7h ago

I’ve been working since 14 too, paying rent in highschool just to live :(

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u/kendoddsdadsdeaddog 7h ago

Yeah me and the 40 other apprentices that were in my year back in 1989

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u/Hortos Older Millennial 7h ago

Yep started in my field at 18.

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u/mratlas666 Millennial 7h ago

I was hauling bricks for my step dad at 14 and paid under the table.

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u/Jabathewhut 7h ago

Ten years old here. My dad owned a buisness so naturally instead of paying for child care i just went to work. Which was a lot of fun actually, I learned a lot and I even got a real paycheck just like everyone else for fun. Obviously it was just cleaning and stocking things but eventually I learned a very valuable skill that comes in handy more often than not.

I can't think of a week that goes by where I dont use that skill. I do it as a hobby or a favor but it is not my career choice.

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u/Xavi5612 7h ago

Same. 33 now. 19 years of working. Been working 40+ hours since I was 16 and 50+ since I was 18. Have 19 years of work experience, with 14 in my specialized field. Laid off last year after a merger and it took a full year to find a job because I had too much experience.

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u/MentalCoffee117 7h ago

I don't count babysitting (earning cash at age 9 or 10, which seems crazy now that parents trusted a 9-year-old). My first official job was at 14. By 16, I had multiple jobs (thanks farm exemptions). At 17, I graduated early with a healthcare tech certificate and worked multiple jobs through college. Now I have 20 years in healthcare before 40.

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u/bean0_burrito Millennial 7h ago

15 years old.

i'm 36 now

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u/Heylady728 Millennial 7h ago

Me! Started working at 13 one summer, turned 14 later that summer. I really wanted a car eventually and my parents would not have been able to buy me one and I was fully aware of that. 

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u/starkeuberangst 7h ago

Does overtime count?

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u/Godenyen 6h ago

I had a decade of work experience before starting my current career, which I'm at about 2 decades worth. Almost 3 decades of work.

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u/Creepy-Floor-1745 6h ago

Me. 

Besides babysitting, McDonald’s hired 14 year olds so yeah 20 years by 34, along with a college degree (working FT the whole time) and my oldest was 13 by then. 

I’m not tired. I still got some fight left in me. 

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u/GenericFatGuy 6h ago

What most people would consider my first job was washing dishes at Pizza Hut when I was 14. Before that, I had a paper route when I was 10. I'm gunning for that 30 years of experience at 40.

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u/Silent-Let9146 6h ago

… everyone started working before 20

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u/Oz1227 6h ago

Started working part time at 16 here. Also 20+ years of work experience. Also under 40.

I’m tired boss.

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u/badger_flakes 6h ago

I have been working since 14 as well. 17 years at the same company right now and I’m not even 40 yet.

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u/xplorerex 6h ago

Hello. Another good worker here (and business owner). Over 20 years in my trade. Been a wild ride.

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u/rvasko3 6h ago

Same here, and officially (meaning, work permit and all) since I was 15.

Honestly, 28 years later, I'm not tired like OP's dumb meme. It gave me a healthy work ethic and allowed me to always be able to provide for myself (and now for my family).

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u/Varok89916 6h ago

Literally everyone i know....

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u/firesoups 6h ago

39 with 25 years in the service industry here.

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u/It_Just_Exploded 6h ago

Much the same here. I was talking to another dude a couple weeks back and i mentioned I've been in the trade for over 30 years but I'm 45. Dude didn't believe that my first real job was framing when i was 13, and i did that every summer and winter break as well as some weekends until i graduated.

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u/armhat 6h ago

Same. Started at 14 washing dishes for pay under the table. Been working at least two jobs since I was 16. I’m so tired.

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u/alextrue27 5h ago

Same at least legally I started working at 14 before that I did summer work on a family farm but have worked full time hours from 14 I am now 34 just hit my 2nd job I have been at for a decade.

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u/ganjakhan85 Older Millennial 5h ago

I'm with ya. Just got my social security statement for the year last week, been paying taxes since 2000. I'll be 41 this year.

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u/knaimoli619 Millennial 5h ago

I got my working papers at 14 and started then. By 16, I was working full time. I worked at a local bakery for almost 10 years before I really started in my actual career field. Even though I went to a commuter campus for college, I was definitely in the minority of folks working full time.

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u/8bit_dr1fter 5h ago

13 here. Bussing tables. Let me tell you, a restaurant was no place for a 13 year old.

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u/MarekRules 5h ago

Yep I remember working at McDonald’s and needing to coordinate rides from my parents to go to work at 14-15 lol. Worked all through college as well and I’m 36 now I’m tired boss

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u/brandorambo25 5h ago

W2's since 14 as well....can you still de-tassle corn in the Summer?

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u/uber-judge 5h ago

Same….

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u/Redacted_dact 5h ago

Most people start working at 18 or 22 at the latest so ya basically everyone has that.

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u/ButtholeSurfur 4h ago

I mean, everyone.

Do you actually know people who didn't start working before 20?

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u/responsiblefornothin 4h ago

If you count mowing lawns, and shoveling snow around the neighborhood for cash, or running tractors and cleaning cabins, then I had 20 years of experience before 30.

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u/Nutcopter 4h ago

Yeah, me. I started at 14 as well. I'm 42 now

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u/MvstBeMe Millennial 🎱 4h ago

I'm right there with you & I just turned 30. 

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u/AberonTheFallen 4h ago

Same, real job at 14, but babysitting at 12. I'm tired boss

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u/FrameJump 3h ago

I feel like everyone I know in life will have twenty years of experience working before they hit forty.

That's not a very high bar.

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u/Left_Macaron_6427 3h ago

Yes. Many. Including myself

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u/asailor4you 3h ago

I started working at age 12.. always had a job until joining military at 18, and by 40 I had 22yrs experience in said field.

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u/302-SWEETMAN 3h ago

Same here. 14 working on farm in the summer bailing hay then stacking the 75 pound bails 3 stories high in the barn .
You start exactly like cubert steps.

Then when that was done we would shovel out the animal stalls.
With like 8 - 13 layers if pure hell on a pitchfork..
You ever peel back a few layers & straight up white clouds of AMONIA punch you in the lungs???

I dont recommend it & the literal piles of maggots everywhere as they waterfall off the shovel etc.

Every job i had ever since then has been a cakewalk in comparison, no job has ever worked me as hard or rattled me since.

Just the sweating with hay & dust particles clogging every pore & getting into all the cracks and crevices alone was torture…

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u/DiminutiveNutMuncher 3h ago

Technically, I’ve been working since I was 13 but dropped out of school and started working full time and playing child support.. passed level 1 sommelier test at 22 so by the time I was 40, I had almost been in the alcohol industry for a full 20 years

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u/fishymutt 3h ago

Everyone I know, i assume...

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u/Redditcadmonkey 2h ago

Lolololololololol.

Every single child of a farmer or a small business owner have at least 30 years before 40. 

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u/philovax 2h ago

Family business retired from 25 years of cooking at 40. Honestly just saying I “retired” even though i just have a different career is mentally freeing.

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u/Carbonated-Man 2h ago

Yup, me. Started working at 16.

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u/Itchy_Wasabi3928 2h ago

Me! Started at 13 washing dishes at a restaurant, not even sure if it was legal but the owner was a neighbor. 41 now and really struggling that I’m only halfway in my career towards retirement. But hey! We can keep paying into social security for boomers while we won’t see a dime of it!

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u/No_Green_2887 2h ago

I’ll have 24 years of experience by the time I’m 40. Not to mention having 2-3 jobs most of that time

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u/Lower_Monk6577 Millennial 1h ago

Bruh. Same.

I got a paper route when I was like 12. Worked grounds crew under the table over summers between then and turning 15. I worked part time in food service until I turned 18, and then picked up more hours before graduating high school.

I haven’t been unemployed longer than a week since I was 15. I’ve worked full time since I was 18. I graduated college during that time. I just turned 40.

Fml.

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u/ResurectedNPC Older Millennial 1h ago

Right?!? My first job was at 13

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u/No_University7832 1h ago

Gen X here.... Started work on the farm at 7.... 62 now.(no retirement).... And yes I am fucking exausted.

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u/Kay3o 92 bby 1h ago

Oh my god, Im 34. Ive got 20 years of experience in the work force, I've never thought about it like that.

What am I doing wroooooooong

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u/henrydaiv 1h ago

✋️

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u/WillyBluntz89 1h ago

Oh fuck, same.

Just realized that ive been in the workforce for 23 years...fml

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u/Free_Alternative6365 31m ago

8 yo when I started over here. Classically trained, touring, recording and competing choral and solo kid vocalist.

I was paid well and I earned every penny. In that space, kids worked twice as hard bc no one gave a damn that we were little. It was high pressure and you were expected to act like an adult professional always.

You can't really stop being a singer, but I retired from doing it professionally at 30. It was a good run.

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u/Ozmariot 13m ago

My first job was at 14 as the Chick-fil-A cow. I worked it to pay for kung-fu lessons. Worked food service till 18 then sales for 5 years and construction from 23-32. Currently trying to learn to be a gold smith so I can work with my hands and also have AC.

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u/Super_Fa_Q 5m ago

Yes. Me.

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u/duke5572 3m ago

I started at 10 (paper routes, about 10-12 hrs/wk). Had 20 years in by 30 🫤

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u/CaptainSnazzypants Older Millennial 8h ago

Part-time work during school doesn’t really count as “years of experience”. There’s a difference between working part-time jobs and starting your career.

You’d never put on your resume that you have 20 years of experience if 8 of those were part-time jobs at different retail stores.

But to your question, most people I know had jobs starting between the ages of 14-16.

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u/Beautiful_Ad_6386 7h ago

I've been at the same place for nearly 26 years and i'm not quite 40 yet. I'm tired and over it. But here I am. I also had a second job on and off during that time along with schooling. Went to school for graphic design (only have used it for side work) and AI just yetted that off the board of jobs.