Need help please🙏

[u/TraditionalAd9169]

So my ex girlfriend (22F) of an year broke up with me in February this year and largely we have been apart since then until recently she broke no contact and after catching up with each other things got a little weird because I pressured her to be on friendly terms which she denied explicitly that she doesn’t wanna do anything anymore with me again and when she mentioned about her failed talking stage after our breakup I sorta just lost my mind and just exploded all my emotions onto her through texts now after a few days later,I initated a conversation again and subtly flirted for the first time since breakup by saying today’s date is 10/10 thats you and she replied with melting face emoji and said back “thats you” while also saying that you might have said that to more people after chatting up a bit she got distant again which makes me wonder if I could rizz her up without stressing her out and see where this goes or should i respect her boundaries and space? If i can re attract her by flirting,what should I keep in mind to not cross any lines as well as make persuade her without losing any self respect. P.S-She barely gets approached by any good guys cuz we live in a small town and I believe I can use that to flirt with her and re attract her again and ofc I know I made some stupid mistakes but I genuinely love her a lot and I am working on becoming better.

[u/Substantial-Boss3939]

Respecting her boundaries sounds like the right call for now

[u/thirsty_xero]

Just if you are a man of ethics .... Think of the possibilities of u and her coming together again.. thinking of ur breakuo and keeping things in mind what habits u both have and will it work out ... Ask yourself .. if u think it can... try again .. but if u think it won't 🙂 don't approach her .. would be better for u urself and her