r/FaltooGyan • u/Any-Eye-9830 • 1d ago

Bakwaas Lo ji yeh mera gyaan

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u/Ecstatic_Pause704 1d ago

Both of them rejected each other on the basis of weight and height but the girl can improve her weight yet the Guy cannot be taller

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u/knightstar8114 1d ago

Yeah, seems like there's at least one unfair expectation being set

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u/Ecstatic_Pause704 1d ago

Yeah I know girls like tall men whta do I do

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u/knightstar8114 1d ago

Don't worry, there's a girl out there for everyone. You'll find the right person eventually just stay patient. And guess what the right person won't care about such expectations.

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u/Exact_Alternative170 1d ago

I think people should start becoming right person instead of finding right person.

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u/knightstar8114 1d ago

Don't most people practice that everyday? Who chooses to be a wrong person? The ones that are wrong wouldn't care to correct themselves

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u/Exact_Alternative170 1d ago

Not most, but some people do.

We see plenty of cases every day where people actively demand superficial traits, such as tall men or fair-skinned women. So, if people are becoming better, why does this still persist?

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u/knightstar8114 1d ago

I mean I haven't seen such demands in huge numbers. A couple comments on the internet shouldn't represent the majority

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u/Exact_Alternative170 1d ago

I have seen a lot in real life that preferences of tallness and fair ness. Apart from internet.

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u/knightstar8114 1d ago

Yeah, people like that definitely exist. And I'm sure there are other preferences that exist as well not just related to physical attributes

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u/PRANAV-69 15h ago

How do i become a gurl😔

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u/Ecstatic_Pause704 1d ago

I'm a girl😭😭😭😭 Don t want a girl a guy instead but he cold replies and otherwise never replies

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u/Mysterious_Coder_ 1d ago

Then maybe you should reduce your weight

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u/knightstar8114 1d ago

Fortunately, that advice applies to everyone. Doesn't matter what gender you are. There's a saying i can't remember right now, it's sounds something like, "Right person, wrong time or Wrong person, right time." The point is, you'll find the right one eventually. There's no point in pursuing someone that might not be interested in you. Better to just move on if it doesn't work out.

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u/Winter_Glove_7052 1d ago

Get shoes with bigger soles. Drink complan. Complain to your ancestors about height. Then give up.

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u/Puzzleheaded_Lab2667 1d ago

Most of my friends who are in a relationship are 5'7-5'9 though

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u/PRANAV-69 15h ago

Its above average in india

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u/Happy-Log1940 16h ago

I mean...you're judging him for something he can't change while giving her the benefit of the doubt for something she hasn't changed yet. Both have their preferences, but let's not act like only one of them deserves grace 🫠

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u/knightstar8114 11h ago

Why not? People don't have control over how tall they are

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u/Happy-Log1940 11h ago

That’s exactly the point sherlock. Neither can fully control their physical traits, but weight can often be changed to some extent, whereas an adult’s height generally can’t. If she’s allowed to be judged on the possibility of changing her weight, why can’t he be accepted for his height as he is? And if both rejected each other, neither is obligated to change for the other. It’s about applying the same standard to both.

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u/knightstar8114 11h ago

You say neither can fully control their physical traits but that's not true. Being overweight or obese is fully preventable, it's all about self control, just cause such women can't practice that doesn't mean they get a pass.

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u/Happy-Log1940 11h ago

You’re giving her a pass because she can lose weight, but he gets no pass for something he can’t change. That’s the double standard 💀

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u/knightstar8114 11h ago

I think you're confused I'm not giving anyone a pass

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u/Happy-Log1940 11h ago

I'm making a comparison, not asking you to give anyone a pass. Read what I'm actually saying.

🫥

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u/Exact_Alternative170 1d ago

Some got rejected for colour also

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u/Ecstatic_Pause704 1d ago

I hundred percent agree but the ones rejecting have something wrong with their brain right

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u/Ghost_Maverick1 14h ago

And still you'll find those pigs lurking here and there instead of losing weight

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u/Ecstatic_Pause704 12h ago

Instead of joining gym a mf guy told me to be more slim like a piece of wood like him just because he was too thin he wanted me to be more thin

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u/Ghost_Maverick1 12h ago

Apparently, preferences are standards when you reject someone, but discrimination when someone rejects you. The hypocrisy is doing Olympic-level gymnastics.

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u/Ecstatic_Pause704 11h ago

I totally agree

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u/Unlikely_Event_3609 9h ago

if you can't even decide what's right for you or not then you def need a hospital

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u/Existing_Row3528 1d ago

Yeh but one can change their weight but height is something you born with

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u/AutomaticScene 1d ago

Yeah on paper atleast she can🤣🤣

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u/AkShAt_004 21h ago

Exactly....so weight shaming is fine !

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u/Ok-Restaurant-9602 17h ago

What if it's the opposite

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u/No-Direction-4487 1d ago

Interestingly there are many surgical procedures by which height can be increased….

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u/Perfect-Skin-8325 1d ago

None of them are safe long or short term

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u/Letha_Jal 1d ago

Those surgeries are excruciatingly painful, I am better off being a short or average height person than a tall person who might have leg complications later on

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u/No_Caterpillar_9144 21h ago

That is torture not surgical procedure ...

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u/phenylketonuriaa 1d ago

https://giphy.com/gifs/efP3fDttjSfTzQppiw

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u/Cosmichydra_56 22h ago

Yall got any more of them pixels?

https://giphy.com/gifs/BDVObxCOU6tmE

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u/AayushVise 1d ago

What does this mean ? Can someone explain pls

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u/Clean-Employer-6914 1d ago

Pink/red is women, blue is man Men are so hypergamous omg

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u/Nervous-Try5009 23h ago

Is 171cm good ?

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u/Educational-Rock-217 20h ago

5'7 is okh not good😭

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u/Prestigious-Fig-6296 17h ago

Tom cruise is 5'7 btw and one of the most paid actor of hollywood

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u/Dry_Rip6002 1d ago

Itna sach nhi bolna tha

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u/Any-Eye-9830 1d ago

Raha hi nhi jata ab kya kre

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u/Comfortable_Rex 19h ago

Imagine being short and poor ure done bro

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u/Any-Eye-9830 19h ago

Fielding set krke bheja hoga kismat ne tb to pura

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u/iamdipankarpaul 1d ago

Also guys can't change their height but girls can change their weight.

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u/Medical_Dependent143 1d ago

one can be controlled and one can't , iconic

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u/sahilbarak8010 1d ago

Fat girls are cute 🥺

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u/Alaska4640 1d ago

Only a bit chubby girls, otherwise overweight fat girls look like Buffalos

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u/Educational-Rock-217 20h ago edited 18h ago

short guys are cool

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u/Alaska4640 19h ago edited 18h ago

Ohh

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u/Educational-Rock-217 18h ago

it was just for u not anyone else🙃🫶

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u/Alaska4640 18h ago edited 18h ago

Thanks

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u/Educational-Rock-217 18h ago

okh so tall guys are straight-up dried raisins or better broomstick !! Happy

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u/Alaska4640 18h ago

Have a nice day

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u/Educational-Rock-217 18h ago

r u bot or what

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u/Alaska4640 18h ago

Nope, i just don't have any enemies

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u/theretardhumanwrites 23h ago

Aurat toh bhari-bhari hi acchi hove h 😏

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u/PayFabulous4807 22h ago

Pre nut insanity 👆

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u/ImaginaryOnion8006 12h ago

Being thick is not bad but being obese is. 🥀

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u/theretardhumanwrites 23h ago

Main toh bewakoof hu

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u/PayFabulous4807 22h ago

Post nut clarity 👆

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u/CoochieEater67 21h ago

It's okay if you want to date someone taller than you but most of these women are themselves like 5'4" 😭

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u/Expensive_Space_4036 1d ago edited 1d ago

For the feminists saying, "Girls can still reduce their weight in 3 months but guys can't gain height" ; Oh girl, if it was so easy for you then you wouldn't have turned into a buffalo in the first place.

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u/CoochieEater67 21h ago

Kehne main aur karne main farak hota hai and we know they can't stop shoving food down their throat

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u/Axzyte_125 1d ago

Preferences exist, you want a fit girl? Go for it dude, no one should judge you for that, a girl wants a tall dude? Go for it, no one should judge her too

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u/Unique-Benefit-2904 1d ago

Me who can get rejected for both the reason 😔

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u/ImaginaryOnion8006 12h ago

Go to gym. 🥀

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u/Lopsided-Kitchen-927 1d ago

Girls get rejected more for skin color and face features than for weight tbh

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u/Arabaka90 1d ago

They need horses dihh

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u/Live_Tax_684 23h ago

Is good 167cm

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u/ChamberHP 23h ago

Only way u coming near a girl is by arranged marriage gng 💔💔🥀, 167cm in this economy💔💔💔

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u/PRANAV-69 15h ago

Bruh i am 5'4 🥺🫶

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u/ChamberHP 15h ago

Shaadi matrimony needs to come up with chottu matrimony to support the short kings✌

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u/PRANAV-69 13h ago

Just earn enough and u will get crazy matches in these apps lol Money talks

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u/ChamberHP 13h ago

No, women are strong and independent individuals. So as such individuals, it is only right that they spend their own money to assert their independence 😍💅

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u/Ok-Lobster7350 22h ago

I'm 5'9 so I'm probably safe🙃

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u/ImaginaryOnion8006 12h ago

They date only 6+ peeps. 🙂

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u/Ok_Beyond5145 22h ago

😯😯🙂

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u/looknee_tunes 21h ago

Atleast both are rejecting each other and giving true reasons instead of lying, ghosting and everything else. We need more individuals like this tbh.

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u/Ghost_Maverick1 14h ago

Apparently, preferences are standards when you reject someone, but discrimination when someone rejects you. The hypocrisy is doing Olympic-level gymnastics.

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u/keonhiesaysss 12h ago

Everyone has preference. 🙁

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u/Agent_Saffron666 8h ago

Wo aate hi honge 🌚🌚........

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u/SherlockH-221B 4h ago

personally i have never understood the concept of "rejecting someone on the basis of height", I do understand physical attraction matters to a lot of people especially someone whos very young into dating, but is it really a deal breaker to having a fulfilling and everlasting relationship? there are lot of other areas which are more imp when choosing a partner yet somehow we always find someone as illogical as height/weight, dating in big 2026 has somehow became more scarier.

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u/aru9443 1d ago

Weight can be lost in 3 months, height can't be increased. But i feel it's okay that people are rejecting. Why be with someone you don't want

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u/MeddYtDaniFan 1d ago

It's fine to reject, but SOME shame them too. That's the main issue in my opinion, regardless of gender

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u/mantaflow 1d ago

Well then they should lose the weight beforehand, so that they won't get rejected based on it. That's true dedication, not complaining lol

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u/aru9443 20h ago

No one is forcing you on gun point.... I was just saying that both comparisons are not true and men also get rejected for their weight and women also get rejected for their height... You know what else women get rejected for that doesn't even matter in men??? How they walk, shape of their toes, if they have hormonal problems, if they don't know how to cook, they love their parents too much, blah blah

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u/Ironheart_1 1d ago

Who hurt you man?

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u/Cautious-Property202 1d ago

Stop saying this shit. Height cannot be changed but weight can, sab ladkiya patli ho jayegi to suddenly they only deserve tall boys? Makes no sense

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u/Any-Eye-9830 1d ago

Tbhi toh faltu gyaan h

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u/kurkure_lover 1d ago

Q gender war

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u/Interesting-4979 1d ago

Roz yehi to hota hain inn subs main

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u/irdk_24 12h ago

It should kinda be the other way, you can change weight (unless its one of those cases where you have a medical issue), but not height