r/DeepTalk • • 25d ago

Curiosity is how love stays alive

Being curious about a person, wanting to know how their mind works, habits , what makes them feel loved, what makes them happy etc is how the love stays alive

Being curious abt them is making sure u Dont reduce them to who u think they are and instead seeing them for who they actually are, theor growth and growing with them.

This is actually quite rare these days Anf I don’t understand why nobody wantso to get to know other people on a deeper level . It creates intimacy and is the highest form of respect.

Do you agree?

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u/wildcat_1533 9d ago

yeah thats true but what happens when u completely know them? like how do you keep being curious about them now is that what they call being bored out of someone

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u/wonderwhoshe_is 9d ago

I don’t think that you’ll ever know a person ‘completely’ despite how long Youve known them or been with them. Honestly if u like them or find them interesting, youll never really be able to stop being curious abt them because you’ll keep noticing new things abt them. And Yhh if u don’t find yourself being curious about them it’s a sign of losing interest but doesnt necessarily mean you love them any less