I identify as straight but now and again I take a real cock up the ass cos I love being pegged. Often I engage in anal and pegging with my girlfriend and it also feels amazing. I am not sexally attracted to men but can't deny and real cock feels better than the strap on my women wears. My question is does this make me bi if I love just the cock on a man?

Hey everyone,

So I see like the subs for bromance and Bromancefinder as well as gay friendship finder and so forth but wondered if there was a sub for finding bi bros or if everyone looks for bros/friends on those subs?

Thanks

The other night, I was out at a gay bar and had had my first drink when this guy hit me up on Scruff. At first I thought we were just talking about meeting up (lol, that's what I get for not reading his profile before replying) but he wanted me to come over and have sex with his wife, which at that point I was open to. Then we got to the did he want me to come over now point, and he was like first I have to have drinks with her to get her in the mood.

Which killed it for me, since up until then I was thinking she was already on-board/involved.

So now I'm wondering if anyone else who has found themselves in a similar situation has any guidelines or red flags they watch out for

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Getting hard when with a woman?

I've have, I have to think about men so I stay hard. I think I've gone from Bisexual to gay

I have been married for 3 decades love my wife. I have always been attracted to guys but never had any experience with connecting until the net. My wife has caught my interest and we have worked through it. She is not accepting of my interest or understanding it. She just wants me to suppress it as I probably have done my whole life. I guess I am looking for advice on how to understand these needs. I tried to avoid using apps to connecting with guys but the draw is so strong.

I will welcome any advice on here or dm me.

Hey guys. I’m 45, and happily married. I’ve known since I was a kid that I was attracted to men, but never acted on it. I’ve always been more attracted to women, so always been in hetero relationships, but a part of me has always wanted to experience being with another guy. My wife is also bi, and had an experience with a friend many years ago. Well, she recently confided in me that she is really wanting to explore that side of her sexuality…which honestly excited me on multiple levels, including me being able to explore my own desires. So we are actively discussing opening our marriage now, and have a meeting with a couples counselor that specializes in these sorts of dynamics today. But, while I’m excited there’s also so much that terrifies me. This is uncharted territory for us, and neither of us want to ruin our marriage, we really love one another, but we also don’t want to deprive each other of a part of ourselves.

Another aspect of this…we live in a small town in the south, and we work remotely, so we feel like we’re on an island. My wife has a good support system, but I don’t. My one local friend is a guy I’ve known since we were 12, but this isn’t something I feel he would understand or be supportive about. I’m glad I have my wife for support, but not being able to be open to others now that I’m fully out with her makes me sad. It’s made me realize I need more friends, especially those that I can share with that have hopefully been through similar situations.

I also worry that guys won’t be interested in me. But that’s secondary at this point.

Just hoping to hear from some of you, and how you navigated things. This is all so new to me.

bisexual porn almost always refer to men having sex with both men and women. meanwhile, every threesome with two women and one man involve the women having sex with each other and also with the man, yet this is never labelled or tagged "bisexual" (i have even seen female pornstars who have regularly done ffm scenes announce their first bi mmf scene as "my first bisexual threesome"). and every orgy or group sex porn which involves multiple men and multiple women will always involve the women having sex with both men and women. and this isn't considered bisexual either. some might object to labelling orgies "bisexual" where women behave bisexually while the men behaving exclusively heterosexually, but i have seen many "bisexual" porn videos which are orgies/foursomes where the women do not do anything sexual with each other, but the men have sex with both men and women.

I’ve wondered about buttplugs for a while. Read about them, educated myself a bit, and finally bought a set. I just wore one of them out, a quick trip to the store and back

The set came with 4, and I thought I was going to use the next-to-biggest, but as I looked at it I chickened out and went next-to-smallest

I massaged my hole with lube, played with it, put a finger up and just…slid it in and out, til I was relaxed. Then lubed the plug, popped it in, let it be in there…then dressed and went

I felt soooooooo naughty and hot, and it was secret and funny and sexy

Came home, took it out, maybe 30mins total, and my hole feels … exercised, I guess. And I’m hard

I recommend, if you’re curious

Hej jag heter 32 bisexual man är i långvarigt förhållande med min underbara flickvän. Jag har fått utforska med lite med andra män tillsammans med min flickvän medan hon ser på oss. Men är fortfarande inte så erfaren. Så jag försöker öva själva för att bli bättre så min fråga är det konstigt att öva suga på frukt och grönsaker som till exempel banan och morot?

I know this is waaay intimate and inappropriate even, BUT as someone with unaccepting and homophobic parents, I can’t help but think that I am not alone. I am deeply attached to my mother, even though she deeply resents my sexuality and blames herself for it. My father on the other hand equally disapproves of it but has always been aloof in my life, despite his best intentions. Anyone has a similar experience?

I'm bi and I feel more sexually connected to men than women. I like twinks, twunks and jocks(I just have a preference for slim but muscular men lol their so hot)

But even though I feel that sexual connection, I can't be physically arouse by what I see on the internet. just in general I don't feel attracted or sexually excited when seeing the typical gay porn videos. Usually I do but it's hard and there's only a couple of gay porn that I actually like including yaoi. Even if I feel a slight arousal by a specific gay porn I just feel down and kinda confused on what I am anymore. I have a crisis whether I'm really bi or just straight up "straight" that has some weird fetish for these kinds things and THAT the reason why I think I have an attraction to men- but even that don't make sense😭

So please, can anyone care to try and give me some answers to my stupid idiot self? It be more appreciated.

Hello, i just had a question for bi men i feel like most other communities wouldn’t understand, and i wanted support and honesty. So I figured i would just come to the source.

I am a bisexual woman dating a bisexual man. we’re both mid 20’s. I’m my boyfriends first girlfriend. Three months into our relationship i found out he had been sexting a man he used to know from another state. I found these messages because i had a crazy weird gut feeling one day, all i did was open his ipad messages and there they were. Obviously i felt extremely betrayed, embarrassed, insecure, but i also felt understanding? if that makes sense. He had been doing it on and off, nothing emotional just mostly him being horny. They facetimed a few times. What hurt the most wasn’t even the fact he did it, it was that he brought me up like twice. He said “oh i’m headed to my gfs house” or “i’m otp with my girlfriend.”

I could’ve been one of those people who takes pics of the chat, posted it on tik tok and blew up on him but for some reason i just gathered my things and left. He obviously was on his knees begging me to stay apologizing, and crying. We took some space for a few days and then i went back willing to hear him out.
He told me that it was something he would just do, to him it was like watching porn, it was so normal to him he didn’t even realize it would hurt me. he said “i felt guilty when being around you but i didn’t understand why.”

There was also little things i find out by obviously going through his phone more when i found it… he has subscribed to sniffies premium(i checked and there was no messages on his acc.) He ended up deleting it in front of me.
Then a couple months later i noticed a random guy insta called him.. he tells me oh that’s my first ever guy hookup hes weird and calls me sometimes. Come to find out he texted him first… it was nothing bad just messages catching up but he lied and deleted them. Only reason i found out is because he reported a picture he got send by him…
I go through his phone cause im obviously sketched out now and i log into his twitter and he grabbed his phone from me!! Turns out it wasn’t just the one guy he sexted before… there was two more.

I forgave him. Fast forward it’s been about 9 months since it happened and i can say i forgive him, the trust is rebuilding itself, i feel safe with him, and i know he loves and cherishes me. I genuinely want to have a life with him and i know he wants that to he’s always telling me. but.. that worry that he will do it again will always be there.

My boyfriend makes me feel like the prettiest girl in the world, when i bring it up or need to talk he reassures me, he quit watching porn(even tho i don’t care if he does really), and he has been constantly trying to prove himself to me. He genuinely is an amazing person and I don’t want to believe he intentionally hurt me, or that he’s a bad person.

I guess i just want to vent but if anyone has any advice or anything i would love to hear it.

(plz refrain from calling me stupid or anything, i’m just a genuine believer in forgiveness and people can change…. i just really wanted to understand him more and thought maybe you guys could help me out. thank you) 🙏

EDIT/UPDATE : WOW. thank you guys. truly. everyone sharing their personal experiences and giving advice has truly helped me so much, and i’m positive it will help my relationship grow stronger now and in the future. you all have been so sweet and welcoming. i wish nothing but the best for all of you in your life journeys!

Just feeling a bit hopeless of meeting someone i actually like that also actually likes me. I’m in perth having recently moved from asia and i realized that i have a lot of things i don’t know about myself in a romantic aspect since i’ve only been in one committed relationship with my ex girlfriend that last for 4 months before she moved and since then have had very shallow or casual connections. I have also since then been more focused on my attraction with men and am still navigating my sexuality but i thought it’d be nice to know how yall meet/met your people so i get a gist of what im doing wrong even though i have a slight idea.
excited to read yalls stories!

As the question suggests, I’d be curious to know whether bisexual men miss anal s*x with men when they’re with a woman. Do you ever get her to improvise/use toys on you? Or does it just depend on the woman? Do you broach this with her?

Late 40s, recently accepted that I’m bi, and came out to my wife who’s been AMAZING about it. She supports me exploring this part of my identity and sexuality. (I have no prior experience with guys.)

I signed up for Feeld, and have had conversations back and forth with a few guys. But I feel totally clueless about how to do anything. Feels like I’m stepping into this world as a “straight” guy and wondering if I belong. Or how to belong. On top of that there’s what connecting with someone physically will be like — I’ve been married for a long time in a monogamous relationship, and sensually/sexually touching someone else seems a bit alien (despite how much I want to do it).

I’m not really sure what advice I need, maybe just reassurance that all of this is ok and part of the process. Or how to get past these feelings.