r/Assistance • • Aug 04 '22

MOD Announcement ⚠️ Rule Update: Teacher Wishlists ⚠️

165 Upvotes

Effective immediately we have made the decision to only allow wishlists for US-based teacher supplies that utilize donorschoose.org. This means that no other means will be allowed including but not limited to Amazon, Target, Walmart, etc.

Teachers, for more information please see their website :

From the donorschoose.org website:

  • We vet all requests, purchase each item, and ship materials directly to verified teachers.

This change is effective from this point forward and we hope this still allows teachers to get donations and the items they need for the upcoming school year while adding some level of verification for donors. If you have any questions regarding this issue, please let us know.


r/Assistance • • Jul 05 '23

MOD Announcement REMINDER: Teacher Wishlists Rules and Restrictions

47 Upvotes

Hi everyone! As summer is in full-gear right now, we've noticed an increase in teacher wishlist requests so we are issuing a reminder of our subreddit rules regarding these:

We only allow DonorsChoose wishlists for US-based teacher supplies. This means that no other means (Amazon, Target, Walmart, etc.) will be allowed.

Teachers, for more information please see their website :

https://www.donorschoose.org/teachers

From the donorschoose.org website:

We vet all requests, purchase each item, and ship materials directly to verified teachers.

We hope this still allows teachers to get donations and the items they need for the upcoming school year while adding some level of verification for donors.

For international teachers outside of the US unable to use DonorsChoose, please reach out to us via modmail.

Thanks!


r/Assistance • • 1h ago

REQUEST Help Charlie reach his 2nd birthday (Vet Bill; $300-$1,000)

• Upvotes

Hi everyone,

Our cat son, Charlie, is about to go through his 3rd surgery this year due to intestinal blockage from eating inedible items (likely caused by Pica).

We are still underwater from the $12K vet bill of his previous 2 surgeries, causing our pet insurance to be maxed out for the year.

Charlie desperately needs this 3rd surgery to continue living the happy and healthy life he deserves especially since he’s still so young and is only turning 2 years old next month.

We wouldn’t be asking for help if it we weren’t brought to the point of desperation, but as you all can probably relate to, we would do anything for our loved ones especially since they bring so much joy and happiness into our lives.

Charlie is family to us & we really just want to make sure that he gets to live a long, happy, and healthy life that he deserves.

Thank you so much, and I hope that you all hug your fur babies and cherish each moment that you have with them.

https://www.gofundme.com/f/help-charlie-get-urgent-vet-care-4ccfj?


r/Assistance • • 5h ago

REQUEST FULFILLED Immediate veterinary assistance needed for pet bird ~$300

16 Upvotes

EDIT: I got this cleared up through other means.

Please, I'm new here im sorry, one of my chicks, baby chickens, swallowed an earplug and she will die if it doesnt get removed. We cannot pay for it since my mom's care credit card got cut up and frozen when she applied for debt relief and the rest of our money is basically being held up so we can pay property taxes and keep our home. We live in Colorado, USA.

I dont know the exact price, the last time we took a chicken to the vet for survery it was $100, we will need no more than $300 our specific clinic only takes care credit for payment plans no other will work and I cannot apply for care credit as i do not have an income of my own in any form. I can provide receipt if I get the money, and I can provide the specific clinic we will go to if you need to know. Cashapp preferred also have paypal


r/Assistance • • 3h ago

REQUEST Cat In Need Of Carrier To Rehome. 💕

9 Upvotes

Good evening. Two wks ago i found out that i have a level 4 cat allergy. This has devastated me and my family because weve always loved cats. But from 2015-2026 ive had one who passed in 2020; so i adopted my now cat in 2021.

I began having breathing issues etc but never put it together until now. I saw an allergist and it was confirmed. My symptoms are very bad and i now have severe allergic asthma. A trusted family friend is taking her so she will be loved and cared for. 💕

At the moment the carrier we had is now too small for her to endure the hour drive. Im between jobs and cannot afford to purchase one for her. My friend will be here sunday to pick her up.

This has been heartbreaking for me. But i have to take care of my health. If anyone can help id appreciate it.

Thank You.

https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/3MYUUWBVM99MA?ref_=wl_share


r/Assistance • • 10h ago

REQUEST $1,100 urgently needed for my dog's surgery

14 Upvotes

Hey all. I really don't wanna go out to people and practically beg for money, but this is an urgent situation that I alone am not able to cover. My beloved chihuahua Chica has had a hernia developing for about a year, and me and my family has struggled to hold enough money to pay for the estimated $1,100 surgery due to us being low income. We've looked at all sorts of options, but we're always met with either a clinic didn't do this specific surgery, has no medical plan for us to enroll in or were unable to enroll in, or the price was too outrageous (highest we saw was $11,000, not surprising as we live in California). We've come very close to paying this finally, but a family emergency has pushed us back, and we need it more than ever now as Chica has began to show signs of pain and discomfort, and we fear the hernia could burst/rupture at any moment.

I have a GoFundMe already set up with a link below and I stumbled upon this reddit in my time of need and was hoping if anyone here would be able and willing to donate anything to go towards her surgery. If the estimated price turns out to be a bit higher then we'll do our best to cover that gap ourselves, but anything you can donate will be immensely appreciated 🙏.

Urgent Surgery for Chica


r/Assistance • • 14h ago

REQUEST FULFILLED £10 short for rent

7 Upvotes

I had to work less hours last month this work due to an illness and unfournately my pay was lower this week. And I am around £10 short of my rent. If any assistance could be provided here please that would be amazing, please. I have evidence if needed and I also would prefer to use PayPal.


r/Assistance • • 4h ago

REQUEST Help with gas for work.

1 Upvotes

Hello everyone. I am looking for $25 to help fill my tank up half way just until I get paid on Thursday. I had a tire blow out on me today and I used up the last of money on a new used tire. I just need to make it to work until I get paid. Thank you so much.


r/Assistance • • 20h ago

NO LONGER NEEDED Urgent help needed for emergency surgery after our dog’s cancer surgery complication

19 Upvotes

I AM PUTTING THIS DOWN AS REQUEST FULFILLED AS SOMEONE SNE A LINK TO PAYMENT PLAN, WHICH WILL WORK FOR ME.

Hi everyone,

I’m reaching out because I don’t know where else to turn for our sweet girl, Loopster, or “Loopy.”

Loopy is honestly the sun personified, or dogified. Somehow, she manages to be both the most chaotic and the sweetest dog I’ve ever met. If someone robbed our house, she would probably just sit there and ask for pets. Anyone who has met her would say the same, except perhaps my cat. Though, to be fair, they’re more like siblings who fight than actual enemies.

I’ve never had a day with Loopy where I wasn’t either terribly impressed or greatly disappointed by something she’d done, because she has dug through one too many rubbish bins. Which is why I was absolutely devastated when we learned she had an aggressive cancerous tumour.

We spent money we didn’t really have on her first surgery, but no matter the cost, I would never have made any other choice. Because the tumour was in a sensitive area near her bottom, we knew she might struggle with incontinence for a few days. It wasn’t glamorous for poor Loopy, but, as she always does, she never complained. I have never once heard her whimper.

Unfortunately, things did not improve. In fact, they got worse. She physically cannot hold in her faeces, and it has been smearing wherever she walks and all over herself. Even without being an expert, I know this must be incredibly uncomfortable for her.

Today, we took her back to the vet for a check-up and to have everything cleaned safely. As we feared, this is not normal and needs to be fixed urgently. Something inside was not stitched back together properly and has collapsed, causing faeces to leak continuously.

So now, after already spending so much on her first surgery, we are back at square one trying to find even more money to help her. If my heart doesn’t break seeing such a good girl in this state, it shatters when I realise I don’t know where to find the money to pay for the repair surgery.

If you can help in any way, it would mean the world to us. If you can’t, your kind thoughts and shares are just as appreciated.

Thank you for reading, and have a lovely day.


r/Assistance • • 22h ago

REQUEST FULFILLED Help with groceries/cat food

32 Upvotes

Hello,

I am a teacher caring for my mother who has both physical and mental health issues. Between rising food costs, rent, a couple of car issues, and medical bills (including bills for a minor surgery I had earlier this year), we are really struggling. While my mother should qualify for government assistance based on her needs and issues, she has been denied multiple times. We are currently trying to fight through the system, but it is slow-going and incredibly frustrating. This is to help us make it to my next paycheck on the 31st.

I have two cats, and my mom came with two cats when she moved in with me. Of the four, two are seniors and two are middle-aged, hence the two kinds of food. The seniors are unfortunately very picky and won’t really eat anything without the Hartz toppers. The most important things on the Amazon list are the cat food because them being fed and happy is most important to me.

I have also included snacks that are easy for my mother to make when I’m not home (Mac and cheese, cereal, peanut butter and crackers, meat sticks), along with some protein shakes and bars for myself because those keep me full and make it easier to skip meals. Please feel free to prioritize my mom’s food over mine.

I have, to make ends meet, sold hobby items over the last few months it’s just hard to make ends meet right now.

Thank you to anyone reading this and considering helping.

Amazon list


r/Assistance • • 7h ago

REQUEST In need of a nebulizer

0 Upvotes

Hi everyone! I am in need of a portable nebulizer for my child, because the one we currently have stopped working unexpectedly. Unfortunately I don't have the means at the moment to purchase one out of pocket. I have Cashapp as a way to receive the funds to buy it at my local Walgreens (not available at amazon) I'll put a link to the one we need if anyone can help out we would appreciate it so very much <3

Currently on sale for $39.99 https://www.walgreens.com/store/c/dr.-talbot's-portable-nebulizer/ID=300470917-product


r/Assistance • • 7h ago

REQUEST Donate To Help Nia ❤️

1 Upvotes

https://gofund.me/05f82777f

Hi everyone,

Our sweet fur baby, Nia, has been our constant companion for 15 wonderful years. She has brought so much love, comfort, and joy into our lives, and now we want to do everything we can to keep her comfortable and healthy in her senior years.

Nia has been diagnosed with a heart murmur. To safely address her health, her veterinarian needs to perform a chest X-ray to check her heart size and evaluate her lungs. Additionally, she is suffering from dental disease and requires urgent dental work to relieve her pain. We were told, she has a tooth that is being absorbed by her gum, and also 2 other teeth with a lot of work needed. Because Nia has a heart murmur, her dental procedure requires specialized care and monitoring under anesthesia, which has significantly increased the veterinary costs.

How your donations will help:

- Chest X-ray and diagnostic imaging

- Pre-anesthetic bloodwork and heart monitoring

- Dental surgery and pain management

A $5 or $10 donation would mean the world to us and will go directly toward Nia’s veterinary bills. If you are unable to donate, sharing Nia's story with other animal lovers would be greatly appreciated also.

Thank you so much for your kindness, generosity, and support.


r/Assistance • • 13h ago

REQUEST Relief for Electric Bill Desperately Needed

2 Upvotes

https://gofund.me/066c077b8 Hello everyone! For a good part of my life, I was a unpaid caregiver for my mother and we lived off of her Social Security because I was struggling to find a job that would keep me home to look out for her. Unfortunately, not only have I lost my father to a house fire two years ago, but my mother lost her battle against Uterine Cancer passing away in her sleep on August 4th. Now I am frantically looking for jobs either remotely because I lack my own mode of transport, or in person work that is nearby me that is cheap enough for Uber.

So far I have been getting some family help with paying my bills for my apartment but now this month I've been slapped with a $437 and some change electric bill due to a security deposit being lumped into my original $159 bill because of my lack of work experience. And this eye watering bill is tough for a lot my family members to swallow and lend aid with. I've reached out and exhausted so many options before a gofundme. Everything from churches, to special programs, and even asking the electric company themselves for some kind of relief. And unfortunately a lot of the assistance in my area is only catered to seniors, veterans, or the disabled. And I am none of those.

I just simply want this huge bill paid and off my shoulders so I can relax a little better while I'm still on the hunt for some kind of job that will help me get on my feet and be somewhat financially stable. So whatever can be donated here will be of a huge help as it will be put towards hopefully laying this bill to rest.


r/Assistance • • 11h ago

REQUEST in need of gas!

1 Upvotes

hello everyone! so after months of being unemployed, i finally landed a really awesome job! since i just started, i haven’t gotten paid yet. my position requires a vehicle (which i thankfully do have!) as i go to different locations all over for community visits for parents/children. if i could take public transportation until then, i would. im requesting $30-$50 for gas money to allow me to continue driving for work and back home until my first paycheck hits. i dont have any family or friends to ask as its just me figuring this life thing out alone. i always give back and do what i can when i am in a position to do so and plan on continuing that kindness regardless if its extended to me or not. this help would be greatly appreciated! thank you so much in advance and to this sub and the people in it for all that you do!!!!

i’m getting DMs from scammers. i’m already in a hard situation. please don’t make it worse😓


r/Assistance • • 4h ago

REQUEST Cant Get out of this hole.

0 Upvotes

Life has been hard and I've found myself in a hole I can't get out of. I'm working two jobs, but something constantly has to come up as a wild expense, and this last month I had to overextend to make rent.

I've already cut every expense I can manage, the fees, and interest, and overdraft charges make it so I can't even break even with a good paycheck. I'm drowning and just out of rope.

I am working, but find myself in a hole of credit cards and payday advances and overdrafted accounts.

Just one of these things off my shoulders would make the rest all manageable, I just have no means to make headway, by the time rent comes due I basically have to fall into the same trap to keep from losing everything.

My total is roughly ~1500 USD, but literally anything would be huge. Anything.


r/Assistance • • 11h ago

VOTES Face of Halloween Contest

0 Upvotes

I am not sure if I am really allowed to share this here, but I have a unique request that would be completely free for anyone to fulfill. I am trying to win a contest for the face of Halloween and need people to vote for me daily. It would mean the world if you could take a few moments out of your day to vote for me ♥️

https://faceofhalloween.org/2026/janet-freeman


r/Assistance • • 11h ago

REQUEST Car's Alternator

0 Upvotes

I'm on disability, I get close to $1000/mo. All of my money goes to paying bills. I have two people who depend on me to get them to and from work on almost a daily basis. One of them is my roommate who is also unfortunately tight on money to the point where she can't help more than she already has. After helping sometime last week she's basically broke for the next two weeks since she gets paid biweekly. The other she's already contributed $200 and another friend contributed $50. It also doesn't help that I'm on food stamps and have to wait as long as I usually do to get my groceries for the month, and I got that snap payment on the 7th, I haven't been able to go shopping since the car shut down, and been basically living off ramen and water for the past couple weeks.

The problem is my car's alternators are shot. The old one apparently was putting out too much voltage while the replacement we got isn't putting out enough voltage. It's going to take too much time to return the replacement to get a refund on the replacement which we spent around $160 to get. I'm currently left with $115.70 to my name. And to get a replacement alternator today would cost $335.39(thats including the core deposit charge). Leaving me needing $219.69.

I'm not sure if I need to specify what things I have that people could send to or donate to, but I do have Paypal and Venmo. I hope that I've done everything right, I've read the requirements and such.

If you need to know where I'm located I'm in the northeast of the US. And to be clear about the specified amount that I would need, it's $219.69. I talked with the guy who helped me put in the replacement alternator we got and he told me we could get one today but it'd cost $258.39 + a $77 core deposit.

Sorry if I typed too much I'm just trying to make sure I give whatever info I can.


r/Assistance • • 11h ago

REQUEST Asking for a Little Help Until Friday

0 Upvotes

Hi everyone. I never thought I’d find myself making a post like this, but sometimes life puts us in situations where we need a little help.

I’m currently in the process of leaving my marriage so that my daughter and I can have peace, safety, and a fresh start. I’ve managed to move into a studio for now. Right now, I’m just trying to get through the next few days and make sure we have food and money to pay some bills and the ability to purchase my bus pass until Friday, when I receive my pay.

If there is any kind stranger who might be able to help, even just a few dollars would mean so much to us. Every little bit would help take some of the stress off my shoulders right now.

I want to be clear that this is not something I intend to make a habit of. I’m simply going through a difficult transition and need a little help getting through this week. Once Friday comes, I’ll be able to take care of things myself again, and I truly hope this is the first and last time I ever need to ask for help like this.

Thank you for taking the time to read this and for showing kindness to a mom who’s just trying to do the best I can. My GoFundMe link is below:

https://gofund.me/a3d8481e4


r/Assistance • • 1d ago

REQUEST FULFILLED [Request] some food to help get me by

17 Upvotes

Hello! I feel really vulnerable posting this here but here it goes. My mental health has been in the toilet lately [several hospital stays and one 5150 stay] and due to that I was let go from my job. Because of that, money is super duper tight for me right now and im not sure if ill have enough food to get me through next week. I have AFRID, and because of that, going to the food bank is not viable for me because I have no control over what food they are going to give me. Rather than risking taking food from someone who would actually eat it , I made an amazon wish list. There are some pricier protein bars on there but those would be in replacement of meals. Even if you have read this far I appreciate it, thank you<3

https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/1MMWQ47FHYJY5?ref_=wl_share


r/Assistance • • 1d ago

VOTES Not sure if this is allowed, but please voting for my son would be greatly appreciated. This has been a huge boost since we lost Mom.

10 Upvotes

My 10 year pld son watched his Mom have a fatal stroke in front of him. He called 911 and stayed by her side in the hospital until it was time to say goodbye. He held her hand and sang to her while she passed. And through love, strength, and some therapy...has been able to keep a smile on his face and even help another kid in his school who went through a parental loss. It's free to vote once a day, and today is 2x votes. It would be truly appreciated, and he truly loves seeing all the support.

Thank you :)

https://thesuperkid.org/2026/emmett-33f3


r/Assistance • • 1d ago

REQUEST FULFILLED Help with cat food

14 Upvotes

Hi everyone, I have my bills paid for the month but I'm falling short on a few essential items. Most importantly, cat food. I posted the same request and was helped here a few months ago. I know this group isn't supposed to be a long term solution but in about three weeks I start training for a new role at my job that comes with a pay raise. That should help me from falling behind again. Thank you for all that you do!

https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/WTQVWXN5AQ4D?ref_=wl_share


r/Assistance • • 16h ago

VOTES Vote for shadow!

0 Upvotes

Please vote for my pet in the Top Pets competition 🤩 https://TopPets.com/v/kdqdwj

Hi everyone! Please go vote for shadow! I’d really appreciate it! It’s a double vote day and you DO NOT have to pay anything. Voting is free! All you have to do is create an account and vote! 🖤🙏🏾❤️


r/Assistance • • 1d ago

THANK YOU Thank you 🩵

8 Upvotes

Thank you to all of those that assisted with the baby supplies and basics. It’s a huge relief to not have to worry about my little guy’s diapers or wipes this month. The baby toiletries and extra snack pouches are also amazing, he loves them. Someone even got us a second box of wipes, so they should last a while. The Lysol and toilet paper make life much easier too. I’m SO grateful for this sub, thank you!! 😭


r/Assistance • • 1d ago

MEGATHREAD Sunday Sunnies Social Hour ☀️ October 11, 2026

9 Upvotes

Hello everyone! Happy summer!

Welcome to our new weekly (weekendly?) discussion post on r/Assistance! This is a spot for casual conversation, sharing positive vibes, and getting to know the fellow members of our wonderful community.

What to post here:

• ⁠Stories about yourself, your pets, your kids, etc.
• ⁠Recipes, recommendations, and other fun things to do.
• ⁠Positive stories about your experiences on r/Assistance.

What not to post here:

• ⁠Direct requests for assistance.
• ⁠Links of any kind -- for recipes just copy&paste or mention the name. (We may adjust our automoderator down the road)
• ⁠Soft begs/doom and gloom stories about how broke you are.
• ⁠Harassment to anyone.
• ⁠Complaints about the sub, the rules, or the mods.

The mod team will be monitoring these threads carefully to make sure everyone is following the rules and no shenanigans occur. If things go well, we will probably be automating these threads every Sunday even beyond summer.

Have fun!


r/Assistance • • 1d ago

REQUEST FULFILLED Help with Groceries, please

6 Upvotes

Good afternoon! I’m struggling to finish paying off my rent for the month of October. I owe 265, before the late fees. Any money I make will go to that first. The problem is that I’m running out of food quickly, and I’m worried. I made an Amazon wishlist of groceries that would be really helpful to have. All of it is shelf stable. I’m in between jobs right now, even though I’ve been putting in applications and going to interviews. I’m getting leftover money in a few weeks from my student loans, that will help with rent. I also do Uber Eats driving on my e-bike in an effort to pay down my owed rent everyday. I genuinely just need a little help with food so I can focus on paying that bill down as soon as possible. I also have put two or three items for my cat on the list. Anything at all will help, please

https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/2W7A3T87P5IL6?ref_=wl_share